Re: Rep Retirement Lodge #167: Weather
Well, finally getting the chance to tell her I'm done with the games. I'm nervous as hell, but hoping this works out for the best. One last deep breath... LET'S GO!
So you're finally going to stop playing games with her too. From my perspective you both are guilty of that.
Seriously, the conversation should go like this:
Mav: I've thought about it and you are correct; we both should see other people this summer.
Lady: But I thought you wanted to be with just me?
Mav: I do, more than anything, we both need to see what else is available so that we don't wonder what could have been.
Lady: *stunned silence*
Mav: We can see where things stand next fall after we have had some time apart.
Lady: But I don't want you to date other girls, I want you to wait around for me.
Mav: One rule, I'm always here if you need to talk about anything, except other guys. If you need to talk about that call one of your other friends.
Lady: But what if I REALLY need your advice or help.
Mav: No, I don't want to hear about you with other guys any more than you want to hear about me with other girls.
Lady: I guess not.
The thing is that you should try and talk with her no more than once a week during this summer (basically no more than you talk with one of your other standard friends). It's just as important that you stop acting like her boyfriend emotionally as much as physically.