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Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

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MissThundercat said:
Honey, if your opening line is "I have a thing for transgendered," STOP RIGHT THERE. And usually, the ones barfing that line up are cis white dudes.

I'm not here to get you off.
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I'm pretty close friends with a trans woman who shares with me a lot of these messages. Depending on the site you're using it may or may not be fairly normal (if you're on Tinder, for example, isn't this the purpose?), but she'll get these messages on FB even.


One of my other friends reached out and started hitting on her a while back, and totally panicked when he found she was trans. What can I say? She's cute.
 
Swansong said:
I'm pretty close friends with a trans woman who shares with me a lot of these messages. Depending on the site you're using it may or may not be fairly normal (if you're on Tinder, for example, isn't this the purpose?), but she'll get these messages on FB even.


One of my other friends reached out and started hitting on her a while back, and totally panicked when he found she was trans. What can I say? She's cute.
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On FB and Instagram. It's sad and frustrating to know when I have needs of my own, these people don't even care. And Fade and dx are right; if I say no, they can and will get violent.

And the amount of these messages I have to sift through is absurdly high. I have a block list the length of the Mackinac Bridge on Instagram and it's only getting longer.
 
MissThundercat said:
On FB and Instagram. It's sad and frustrating to know when I have needs of my own, these people don't even care
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But you can't let the presence of terrible people affect your life. There will always be despicable people. Your time is precious and finite. Don't spend a second more on scum, move on to the people who do care for you.

This is the Great Cafe Lesson. There comes a moment where you stop having the same fights with the same fools and you put them on Ignore and they disappear from your consciousness. It's as if they never existed. And your life is a succession of interactions with people who respect and value you.

Life's too short to be mad at attention-seeking morons. You can't shame them and you can't reform them. Just wash them right out of your hair.
 
MissThundercat said:
On FB and Instagram. It's sad and frustrating to know when I have needs of my own, these people don't even care. And Fade and dx are right; if I say no, they can and will get violent.

And the amount of these messages I have to sift through is absurdly high. I have a block list the length of the Mackinac Bridge on Instagram and it's only getting longer.
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And here I’ve heard women over 35 are invisible!
 
Kepler said:
To be fair, this is not just exclusively true for women.
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I feel like I got very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very lucky.

Then again, there are plenty of good people out there at all ages. Sure it gets "harder" but kinda the opposite too. Instead of trial and error, you know what you want and what you need and it's a lot easier to say "lolno" instead of "well, maybe I can change her or maybe I can get used to this"

nah. We're all flying around early in life not know where the hell we're going to land. At that age, we've all started to find our runways in life. So will the people you give a shot. (And those that don't know won't be given a chance.). Much more likely to match because you both know where you want to land.

Or just say fuck it and play standby roulette. My buddy met the girl of his dreams on Tinder. A professor who loves hockey.
 
I went to a swing (sexual lifestyle) party last night and I had a whole lot of fun. Nice to be with people who share my openness.
 
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To be honest, I'm not craving a lot of sex right now. Deeply desiring intimacy. Desiring affection. Desiring softness and ease. Desiring lots of gentle touch. I desire to just have that feeling of surrender in someone's arms as they rub my back and stroke my hair. Desiring that feeling of not needing to do anything except rest in someone's gentle, but firm embrace.

And to my surprise, a few people, boys included, have said "yes, that sounds wonderful and I can help with that."
 
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