Re: Rep Retirement Lodge #180: Holiday Onslaught
That's why I don't work a job like yours. Cause I would say no .
That sucks.
I did end up saying "no"
You tell them that you've already made plans for your time off work.
I actually have plans for today (Friday). I was dreading them a bit as I was supposed to work until 7am - really 8am by the time report and documenting is done (haircut at noon, concert in Boston at 8). I was planning on being exhausted for these activities, so when I was offered the opportunity to leave early on Thursday in exchange for Monday, I was excited - so the idea of going back to being exhausted for these events was totally unappealing.
You say no because if you don't you screw yourself AND your co-workers if you say yes. Say yes and it allows them to keep up the practice of renegging on time off, understaffing and not being responsible for planning correctly. Chronic problem in nursing where the admins screw the staff because they feel guilty saying no. Probably too late to say no now but remember that the next time you get called. Tell them you cannot work because you have other plans that cannot be broken, that is why you arranged it that way.
This seems to be a chronic issue at the new place - same as the old place. The staff was supportive and I only had to stay until 2345 to wait for my replacement - then report, handoff, and a 45 minute drive in the pouring rain. Worth it though to chill this morning. When I took this job, I made a pact with Matt that I would make much more of an effort to put us first (rather than the hospital) and not work a billion hours a week.
The icing on the cake is that they had the stones to ask via text.
I actually prefer text to them calling at 11am in the middle of my sleep during the day.
Yup.
The joke at my work is "If you work faster, you might look marginally better than the others, but they give you more work. And no reward."
Sounds like healthcare...
Boom. Except for the reward part. To get the reward you have to annihilate your life for months though.
Indeed.
Resting this morning - ended up not going to bed until 0125 this morning, but woke up with the husband at 0600 this morning. Have spent the morning deciding what style to do with my hair, how much redder I can make it without looking ridiculous, and relaxing. Plan still is haircut, then making bread, then dinner (shrimp scampi), then concert in Cambridge with the hubs.