MissThundercat
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Re: Grinding Away..Things that grind your gears, part three
He's not paying me anything, really. I think the only thing that will work with him is to let things go and stop enabling him. He thinks if he ignores it long enough, I'll get frustrated and do it myself... no more. I'll make sure I have enough clean dishes to dine from; he can eat using the dishes he refuses to wash.Is he paying you to be Molly Maid? (even if he is he wouldn'tdisrespect them like that) Sounds like a teenager with a bad attitude. He is a grown up. Take his hand, lead him to the washing machine, hand him the detergent and tell him to grow up! Take all his trash, put it in a bag and leave it in his room. He must be saving it for someting but it didn't need to be in the common area. This is why I could never live with my Mum. I love her dearly but she is a walking maelstrom.