Yeah all fans in all rivalries need to cease disliking each other immediately! It's SICKENING!
Not at all TTT, what could be more fun than being 21 having a few beers and jumping up and down chanting "Safety school" for three hours. Or throwing a dead gopher on the ice, or learning to spell your state name over and over and over... I cant say that I don't miss the heck out of those days, I do. Part of growing up though was meeting people from all over the country and from many schools and discovering that without question there is not some redeeming qualities to each (even bucky). While it is still fun to chide the neighbors and root against a rival I kind of grew up. If your 40 still hitting campus keggers and flinging dead gophers or internet vitriol then maybe there is a bit of an issue.
While coaching I got to speak to quite a few of these coaches, in the recruiting process my family got to know 5 or 6 pretty well. Although there were a couple I didnt like much we never had one that wasn't transparent about the admissions process, about who they were recruiting, or about what the financial situation was. I know players who ended up really surprised by the depth chart at their position when they got to school but that seems to be the exception. In fact I know of at least 3 or 4 players who were waiting for Jincy to sign before they knew what money would be available last year. I just noticed Minnesota has goalies listed as commits for the next 3 years, I know Frosty well enough that I am confident that those goalies know who the practice goalie is amongst them and that they know they are walking into a competition and not an automatic starter role. If one of them changes her mind it would be hard to blame them, if one doesn't get in with a 19 ACT (this is only an example they all may already have 30s) it would be hard to blame the coach.