Re: 2015-2016 Division I Commitments
Now I understand. Sounds like good advice.
No, I'm saying that, as others have indicated, a commitment is not a commitment at all until an NLI is signed or likely letter received. Therefore, when making a verbal commitment, you merely need to indicate what the conditions are for that commitment--eg. that the financials are in line, and that an assurance of admission is secured based on what you discussed. Once the school is able to honour those conditions officially, the commitment becomes firm. The expectation is that you will both do your part to make that happen as soon as possible. Until then, whatever you discuss with that coach remains between you (though he/she may gossip to other coaches). In the meantime, it's fair game to tell another school they are high on your list. As long as you don't lie to anyone, there's no problem.
You do not discuss it with your club coach or anyone else, and you do not take yourself off the market. If another club comes through with an equivalent or better offer down the road, and the #1 club is unable to fulfill their conditions on a timely basis when advised on the need to make good, you move on.
Now I understand. Sounds like good advice.