Re: Yale Hockey 2010
Dear Jason;
To use a legal term that I KNOW you will understand, this
entire matter is MOOT. Trying to re-circulate a private matter among a
cadre of gossip-mongers serves no justifiable purpose. As a future lawyer, I am sure
that you will recall from Legal Ethics that we lawyers MUST be able to keep
a secret. In my own five-plus decades on the planet, I can think of many things that I've said or done that I wish I had NOT. I am sure that if you reflect back on your own personal history, you can SURELY empathize. So let's move on, and let's ALL wish Sean a speedy recovery. Enjoy your new
role as college hockey's Nostradamus, and join us on that last Monday in May
on the Old Campus to congratulate Sean on winning the William Neely Mallory
Award, and then we can ALL quote from Vergil's Aeneid and say:
Forsan et haec, olim memenisse iuvabit.
Are you really a doctor and a lawyer because that is impressive. No sarcasm. While I will have a JD one day, I will not be a lawyer. And as of right now, I am acting as a reporter. I am not Sean's doctor or lawyer, thus not bound by any confidentiality. And yes, it is because of my own history that I didn't really press into this as a reporter, pretty much just followed the news as it broke. Truthfully, my real interest is in how the Yale athletic dept. tried to act like nothing happened when they knew the PD was involved. I wish Sean nothing but the best. I have been with USCHO since January; I have been a Yale fan since I was 8 years old sitting in aisle 10, row H, seat 16. I am just trying to do my job here.
And really the matter is not moot. Nor am I re-circulating, as the matter is not closed. There is an ongoing investigation, confirmed by me, being conducted by the Yale PD into the incident. And it has been reported that other players were involved, not by me. But I won't press it here nor am I really looking to invade anyone's privacy. For example, Yale makes every student's phone number and address a matter of public record. It would not be unethical at all for me to call them as a reporter. But as someone who is nine credits from a law degree, I know that if I was their lawyer, I would tell them not to discuss it with anyone. Therefore, I would never call them. Also, they are college kids. It would be inappropriate.
Obviously my personal history, well one small part of it, is a matter of public record. All the more evidence that just because you do something you wish you hadn't, and just because you don't want everyone to know about it, doesn't mean it isn't
news.
POSSESSION of information doesn't mean that it should be shared.
OF course, we all want to know what happened, but Sean's privacy and
POTential career must be respected. Once something is reported, it never goes away.
The innuendo in this post completely contradicts the point you are trying to make. Obviously no reporter respected my privacy or considered my career. If I ever go anywhere in this field, I am going to try and hold myself to a higher standard. But really, I don't have any connections yet. So if I find something out, that means a lot of people know it already.
Translation: W T F were you doing and where were your brains?
Do we really need to talk about this? I never hurt anyone guys. I made a mistake. Forgot what else was in my bag from being away for the weekend. End of story. I put all the people I care about through embarassment, have been out of school since January of last year, and am trying to establish myself again doing something I am good at. I had to spend thousands of dollars, do countless hours of community service (which I continue to do now anyway even though I don't have to because I love animals and well, I have the free time). If you don't like what I have to say about college hockey, that is one thing.
But to bring up my past indiscretions, whether directly or indirectly, because I dare to care about a
current news item, not only as a fan but because it is my job, is a little childish. I am ashamed at how stupid it makes me look, but it's out there so I am not afraid to talk about it.