My accounting teacher in high school served in Vietnam, was in the infantry and had some nasty stories about the six months he spent trudging through the jungles. He was lucky, he told us, because almost everyone had a request in to get transferred out of infantry into some support job, but he's one of the few to actually get reassigned. At any rate, he would only talk about his time in the service to students once every two years, during a presentation to the current 10th grade history class when that time of year came around. In the off-years, those kids watched a videotape of his presentation.
I say all of this to get to this greater point he made: The people who tout their military records the loudest to impress others - especially the ladies - were the guys who never spent any time in the muck (censored for board sensitivities), with your rifle aimed at the enemy and the enemies' rifles aimed right back at you. When he got home from the war, and he heard people talking about being a big, bad soldier, he would engage them so that they'd say where they served or what their MOS was, and rip them down because without fail they weren't anywhere near true danger. Eventually, he just rolled his eyes at them as he figured that it would be best not to end up in jail someday. Those soldiers who were in it deep, they tended to be quiet about their service records. They knew what they did, and so did those close to them. It didn't matter to them what others might think. To this day I think of that when people like to champion their time in the service as some great and valiant effort.
In my family, we've been fortunate that none of my brothers were in the line of fire during their time in the Army, and my oldest brother retired with his 20 years just in time to be recalled to full-time status following 9/11, assigned to patrolling the MSP airport for those first few months following. Now i have two nephews serving, one in the medical corps, pushing pills as a pharmacy tech, and the other in armored cavalry scout. Thankfully, he's not yet been deployed overseas, instead getting bored doing drills out near Seattle.