First off, there's nothing Biblical about my self defense position. I believe that the length of a time person is on earth should be determined by God. (I am also an against capital punishment. I have a hard time understanding how so many conservatives can say "save the baby" but "kill the crook", but I digress....) In your case the mom should live. I don't want to give the impression this is an easy decision me for, I type with a heavy heart because it goes against what I said in the first sentence, but as I sit here and think of my wonderful (understatement) wife, it's the less flawed of the options. If this happened to me and my wife, naturally we'd be very sorry, ask for God's forgiveness (and because we are truly repentant, we would receive it) and if it was at all probable the same thing would happen again if she got pregnant, we'd ensure that a future pregnancy would not be possible. I fully understand those who would say "let's God's will be done" and let whatever is going to happen naturally happen, and as much as I want to throw my hat into that ring, I cannot, I can't I go that route. Blast me if you may for going against my own position, but I'm just being honest with you all on a scenario that will never happen to the wife and I. I guess you win, St. Clown.