Patman
Rodent of Unusual Size
Re: Rep Retirement Lodge 95: A USCHO Retrospective
Next year:
OK... the list is generally too long to actually be accomplished but...
1) Get into shape... see Diet and Exercise thread 2010
2) Learn the area. As soon as I get my bike (April/March... depends on hockey season) I want to know this area so I can be the cool guy who knows where things are.
3) Develop one or two hobbies. I need some hook to be interesting. Every guy around here seems to have at least one incredible hook in their life... I need to come up with something that sets myself different from the pack because while being a scientist is different its not particularly interesting unless you work with rockets or sharks. I have a few books floating around... but we'll see what I get the time to do. Biking may end up being one hobby... I picked up (via xmas list) a book on comedy writing... who knows what else I might find as an interest.
4) Work on my fashion sense. No reason I shouldn't go out there and put my best foot forward... I'm a gregarious, intelligent, respectable guy... no reason I shouldn't reflect that.
5) Present myself with more confidence. As I've got deeper into my discipline and more uncertain in my life I express everything I do with in a larger degree of wavering and uncertainty. I've been learning the philosophy of mathematical weasel language because in Statistics there is, by and large, always an out either due to conflicting models which only bear themselves out with (inconceivably) large amounts of data or due to assumptions in the underlying phenomena and data. This means I end up seeing the "maybe maybe not" side to everything... which means that I bleed out confidence any time I speak about something... especially after this past (academic) year where I had everything go some degree of wrong in major parts of my life. I need to be comfortable with taking certain, but possibly incorrect, decisions. I need to stop being such an academic and not worry about quibbling maybes in life. You know, when I'm confident with my life I reflect the high level intelligent human that I know I am. When I have confidence I KNOW I can accomplish just about anything. I've been without confidence for almost my entire college career... imagine if I did have confidence throughout.
6) This is a blanket resolution that i hope for every year and I'm too afraid to do myself. Just be flat out better with women... be comfortable in talking to them... hell... i can't get myself to complement a woman for her looks (wanted to last night... got chicken). Each year I tell myself that this is the year I find a girlfriend... one of these years I'll mean it. Next week I turn 28 and I'm still single, eternally dateless, and a bunch of other items I'm disappointed to admit. I'm a great guy and I know I can make some girl happy and i know I can be real fun when I'm in a positive groove. I really hope that if I can get better with 1-5 then 6 will follow.
I think that's it for now.
Next year:
OK... the list is generally too long to actually be accomplished but...
1) Get into shape... see Diet and Exercise thread 2010
2) Learn the area. As soon as I get my bike (April/March... depends on hockey season) I want to know this area so I can be the cool guy who knows where things are.
3) Develop one or two hobbies. I need some hook to be interesting. Every guy around here seems to have at least one incredible hook in their life... I need to come up with something that sets myself different from the pack because while being a scientist is different its not particularly interesting unless you work with rockets or sharks. I have a few books floating around... but we'll see what I get the time to do. Biking may end up being one hobby... I picked up (via xmas list) a book on comedy writing... who knows what else I might find as an interest.
4) Work on my fashion sense. No reason I shouldn't go out there and put my best foot forward... I'm a gregarious, intelligent, respectable guy... no reason I shouldn't reflect that.
5) Present myself with more confidence. As I've got deeper into my discipline and more uncertain in my life I express everything I do with in a larger degree of wavering and uncertainty. I've been learning the philosophy of mathematical weasel language because in Statistics there is, by and large, always an out either due to conflicting models which only bear themselves out with (inconceivably) large amounts of data or due to assumptions in the underlying phenomena and data. This means I end up seeing the "maybe maybe not" side to everything... which means that I bleed out confidence any time I speak about something... especially after this past (academic) year where I had everything go some degree of wrong in major parts of my life. I need to be comfortable with taking certain, but possibly incorrect, decisions. I need to stop being such an academic and not worry about quibbling maybes in life. You know, when I'm confident with my life I reflect the high level intelligent human that I know I am. When I have confidence I KNOW I can accomplish just about anything. I've been without confidence for almost my entire college career... imagine if I did have confidence throughout.
6) This is a blanket resolution that i hope for every year and I'm too afraid to do myself. Just be flat out better with women... be comfortable in talking to them... hell... i can't get myself to complement a woman for her looks (wanted to last night... got chicken). Each year I tell myself that this is the year I find a girlfriend... one of these years I'll mean it. Next week I turn 28 and I'm still single, eternally dateless, and a bunch of other items I'm disappointed to admit. I'm a great guy and I know I can make some girl happy and i know I can be real fun when I'm in a positive groove. I really hope that if I can get better with 1-5 then 6 will follow.
I think that's it for now.
Last edited: