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Good morning Lodge. Beautiful day here today. I'm off. Heading out with one of my friends to a hotel in Newton to hang at their pool. Swanky!
My parents have a joint checking and savings. They managed money together, my mother would pay for all the household expenses, mostly with cash. This was food, clothing for us, etc. and she would manage to squirrel away money here and there. To a point where she could pay for vacations with it. They both were good at living within their means. When my brothers and I were born, they opened savings accounts for each of us in their name to put any money we would get from birthdays, etc. When we got our first jobs, they brought us to the bank and changed the name on the account to us with them as the secondary name. So, I had a little savings already when I started to work and this is how I helped pay for my college education, they also taught me how to manage my money and balance my checkbook, which I do every month. Like my dad, I will chase a dollar it I'm off. It's usually a minor math error (MATH) but because of them I know where every penny of my money is. Is that frugal? If do, then I'm frugal.
When I was out Wednesday night with work peeps I was saying how I don't have that accessories gene. I'll spend money on clothes, a lot at a time, but it just don't spend money on jewelry and stuff. One of the women who is always so well put together was mockingly horrified and said we will take a half day and she would take me shopping and spend money and she would help me buy all this stuff. I was like, OK. But the more I thought about it, the more I though "I'd rather take the large amount of money she wants me to spend and take a hockey trip or something." I don't need expensive shoes or bracelets. I'd rather pay for a nice hotel and go to the Cape and enjoy myself or so etching like that. I think it's part of how I was brought up to manage my money.