unofan
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“I don’t want to marry one of you” is in absolutely no way at all an insult to you, and is certainly not “demonizing.” It ONLY means that I myself don’t want to marry you.
In “rejecting” groups, I could say that I wouldn’t marry any woman under 30 or over 70. Doesn’t mean I don’t value and even love them individually and collectively. It just means that I don’t want to marry one of them with my own personal pledge of lifelong devotion.
It understandably stings to hear such a casual dismissal from someone like our MissThundercat, but it’s never okay to mansplain how your desirability supersedes another person’s disinterest.
Oh for fark's sake, Kepler was being Kepler, not mansplaining.