The thing is, it was like 7-8 years worth of abuse, and to continuously call it "the incident" is showing that he really, really doesn't get it. I am 100% in favor of second chances. He was young, clearly has awful humans for parents, and much can be excused if he actually puts the time in. And he didn't. Court mandated work only, and then some "team suggested" stuff. And when the orgs he had allegedly worked with started saying "no he didn't", he lost me completely.
Cam is a rock head and needs to go.
Yeah, my guess is he continues to refer to it as "the incident" because he was actually charged with and plead guilty to that single incident involving the candy in the urinal. In his mind he has set aside the other abuse and bullying, basically because he either didn't get caught or didn't get charged.
I think he has two choices. Choice number one, and the path he'll probably follow, is to just see if he can play somewhere professionally outside the country.
Path number two is that he has to recognize that what he did was wrong, had real consequences and he has to atone for it. And by real consequences, I'm not talking about interfering with his professional career.
If I were his advisor, I'd probably do the following. First, I'd get him into some sort of therapy or training program about his acts. Second, he needs to set up a meeting and really apologize to this kid he bullied. Third, I'd try to get him set up as a public speaker in schools. Go and talk to junior high kids about what he did, admitting to it all, and admitting to the consequences to his victim. Yeah, he can add the information about how it screwed up his life too, but that should be a secondary point.
If he's lucky, and appears to be sincere, he may some day get a shot with an NHL team. However, I don't think just the passage of time will do it.