Re: Is it the journey or the trophy that counts...
Great post topic.
We all want the trophy - it's ingrained in American culture to be the best, and we are inculcated from birth with the idea that second place (or other places) are a failure. While that may be the guiding ethos for the strivers, the reality is that there is only one trophy winner.
To me, I look at the journey to excellence as a process. As a fan, I have experienced the exhilration of watching my team win it all, and nothing compares to that feeling at that moment. But a hockey season is a six month experience, that like life, contains highs and lows that carry us through each winter.And frankly, the many years of fun winters where I embrace the game, my school and my community in the hockey rink are more rewarding than any trophy my team wins.
To love a winner is great, but to love the game is the greater gift.
Well said.
I liken it to the Olympics - watching the men's aerials, the final skier threw a tremendous trick, landed it, and everyone knew he'd won gold with it. The camera cut to the skiers who were currently in the medal positions, and the guy in third was clapping and cheering, a huge smile on his face - for a guy who just knocked him out of the medals (and they were not countrymen). The US skier, who had been in 1st until that final jump, upon seeing the score, and knowing that the results were final, that he had finished just behind the gold, was anything but bummed about finishing 2nd. To the contrary, he was pumped! It was not all about winning the Gold, it was about competing, about being there, about throwing the best trick he'd thrown in his life to that point, landing it, and knowing that he'd done his best.
I'm bummed that UNH lost to RIT, and that it was as ugly as it was. However, I'm not going to allow that to stop me from looking back fondly on this season. UNH may never win it all (cue the BC/Maine/etc trolls to confirm), but that doesn't take away from the enjoyment I feel watching the games, nor the pride I feel walking into the Whitt.
Further, I think the fact that UNH fans have gotten to this point is a testament to the effectiveness of the aforementioned trolls. They've beaten into our heads that the only thing that matters is winning the final trophy. I'm not going to lie and say that I'm perfectly content to never win - I'm not; I want nothing more in my sports-watching life than to see UNH celebrate on the ice and hoist that trophy at the Frozen Four. College sports, though, is about more than just winning the national tournament. I think many UNH fans have lost sight of that; some of which is understandable after a tough loss like Saturday night.