Bob McKenzie
Registered User
Re: Is it the journey or the trophy that counts...
Absolutely. If they left it all out on the ice, if their effort was honorable, why wouldn't you be proud. Not all programs are created equal. If my team had won an ECAC championship, never mind an NCAA championship, I would have considered it a major accomplishment. They didn't do that. Technically, they failed but they played honorably and to the best of their ability just to get to the ECAC semi-final. I was disappointed they lost but no less proud of their effort.
Let's turn this around and attack it from a different perspective.
Are you, personally, a success or a failure?
I am not sure what you do for a living, but are you the best at what you do. The best in your city? Your state? Your country? North America? The world? By your reasoning, if you're not the absolute BEST at what you do, then you must be a failure and no one could possibly proud of you for failing.
Maybe that's an accurate assessment of your lot in life. Or you maybe you are a person who does the best with what they've got and you live an honorable life in your journey to be the best you can be, even if it's woefully inadequate existence by some guy's absurd notion of what constitutes true success.
You're proud of your team for failing?
Absolutely. If they left it all out on the ice, if their effort was honorable, why wouldn't you be proud. Not all programs are created equal. If my team had won an ECAC championship, never mind an NCAA championship, I would have considered it a major accomplishment. They didn't do that. Technically, they failed but they played honorably and to the best of their ability just to get to the ECAC semi-final. I was disappointed they lost but no less proud of their effort.
Let's turn this around and attack it from a different perspective.
Are you, personally, a success or a failure?
I am not sure what you do for a living, but are you the best at what you do. The best in your city? Your state? Your country? North America? The world? By your reasoning, if you're not the absolute BEST at what you do, then you must be a failure and no one could possibly proud of you for failing.
Maybe that's an accurate assessment of your lot in life. Or you maybe you are a person who does the best with what they've got and you live an honorable life in your journey to be the best you can be, even if it's woefully inadequate existence by some guy's absurd notion of what constitutes true success.