I'm not just talking about political thought/views though.
Living in rural America, there is a significantly different social dynamic as well. I don't think many people here on the board can appreciate the social significance of a County Fair or the annual "big" town festival. Among most it's probably laughed off as "dumb redneck shit". But it's likely THE big social even for the given area that everyone marks on their calendar.
Same thing with "church". Yea, this place has their views on religion. But in these small, Southern towns, Church and it's social scene is a key dynamic in how people build their social networks... In NYC, people go to Hipster Restaurants for dinner and drinks. In Bumble-fuk, GA, people go to the community supper at the church on Sunday afternoons.
That's kind of what I'm talking about.
I live in a college town of about 75000 people, including the students. I drive through small towns every day on my commute into Des Moines and when I tool around the countryside on the motorcycle when the weather's nice. My wife is the sole public defender covering 3 rural counties in our judicial district (as a state employee; there are some private court-appointed attorneys too). My dad is from small town Iowa, I have extended family in small town Kansas, and my wife's extended family is in rural Minnesota and central California.
I know farmers and plenty of rural folk. They're the kinds of people that would give you their shirt off their backs if they personally know you, and probably give you a jump or a lift if you're stranded on the road as they're driving by. But they absolutely can't imagine spending any time or money helping someone not directly in front of their face. All the farm subsidies, highway subsidies, social security, medicare, etc. that they get is what they deserve and earned. Any money going to someone else, even if it's the same farking programs they use, is fraud and waste.
Look, farm subsidies are essentially a national defense issue. Rule number one of any government is to ensure the food supply. So I don't really begrudge them getting those, other than I wish they'd just say thanks rather than bitch and moan when the single mother gets a fraction of that for food stamps to feed her kid.
But can we stop pretending that rural white people are misunderstood? They're not. As I've stated before, there are thousands upon thousands of articles getting people's opinions at the local gas station/diner in small town America, but never a single one getting the opinions of the black guys at the barbershop in Philly or Harlem. They aren't misunderstood. They're snowflakes that are catered to more than any other demographic, but it's never enough because they don't like the rest of the world advancing. There's a reason the kids who can get out usually do so.
They voted for a known crook, welcher of debts, and permanent airer of grievances because that's what they also are, deep down. They weren't fooled, they didn't make a mistake, they are getting exactly what they want, good and hard.
And just to turn this back to gun control, I don't give a shit about the farmer with the bolt action rifle to protect his homestead from intruders, wildlife, or even aliens, for all I care. But since they feel the need to impose their gun-humping views on everyone else, then fuck them; I'll try to impose mine right back at them.