MissThundercat
Are the cis okay?
Yesterday, my supervising clinician called me a "gentleman," loud enough for me to hear. When I said "you called me a gentleman. Excuse me, my pronouns are she/her/hers," she denied it. When I told her I heard it, she offered a weak "well, it wasn't malicious." On my way home, I get a text saying "I'm sorry for my misuse of language." I sent something back saying "I'm a trans woman. Language like that hurts. I thought I was welcomed and included here." This morning, I get "of course you are welcome."
But that's not the end of it. Today, I sent another text, saying "yesterday, you did X. By doing X, I felt you undermined me." I get a text back, essentially saying "I'm the supervisor. If you need to know how to do your job, ask."
I'm finding who to complain to, because if she's going to respond "I'm the supervisor" every time I say "I felt you did something wrong", on top of calling me a man... we're gonna have issues!
But that's not the end of it. Today, I sent another text, saying "yesterday, you did X. By doing X, I felt you undermined me." I get a text back, essentially saying "I'm the supervisor. If you need to know how to do your job, ask."
I'm finding who to complain to, because if she's going to respond "I'm the supervisor" every time I say "I felt you did something wrong", on top of calling me a man... we're gonna have issues!