This makes no sense. If I borrowed from a bank 5 years ago to grow my business, and I've been making my monthly payments on time, then that bank has no more insight into my current financial position than any other. They wouldn't know if I've taken out other loans, if I've grown my profits 100-fold, if I'm sitting on piles of cash, what my backlog looks like, etc. They knew a snapshot 5 years ago, when I originally applied for the loan, but since then I haven't been sending them monthly financial statements - I've just been sending them checks.
Try re-financing your house with your current lender. When they ask for your current financial info, just tell them, "Nah Bro, we're good - I already have a loan with you!"