Question:
Late March, early April, I plan to get a tattoo of a pink orchid blooming out of a cinder block. But I'm not sure if the words should be:
"Bloom where you are planted" or "you might as well live," with every I in the phrase replaced by a semicolon.
This was a reading at our wedding. "Bloom where..." reminded me of it
I dreamed that I was a rose
That grew beside a lonely way,
Close by a path none ever chose,
And there I lingered day by day.
Beneath the sunshine and the show'r
I grew and waited there apart,
Gathering perfume hour by hour,
And storing it within my heart,
Yet, never knew,
Just why I waited there and grew.
I dreamed that you were a bee
That one day gaily flew along,
You came across the hedge to me,
And sang a soft, love-burdened song.
You brushed my petals with a kiss,
I woke to gladness with a start,
And yielded up to you in bliss
The treasured fragrance of my heart;
And then I knew
That I had waited there for you.
James Weldon Johnson
And I like the idea of the orchid. Absolute survivors if you water them every now and then. All you need is a leaf and part of a root (and sometimes just one or the other) and you can resuscitate it.
I really like "Bloom where you are planted" or something along those lines. You're doing exactly that MT. As a person who married into 11+ orchids, you're story definitely reminds me of the ups and downs of uh... orchid husbandry? Whatever it's called, that.