On the contrary, I am saying that as of about July 2009 he should have said "fuck it" and started acting as if he had Dubya's imaginary mandate. I have no idea what he was thinking. The GOP came right out from Day One and said "our sole goal is to punish the country for having the gall not to vote for us." While it was within his power, Obama should have taken them to the wall and let the 2010 pieces fall where they might. Given that all the hyperbloviation from the far right could not have been more insane, at least having some achievements to point to (and a ludicrous, disloyal opposition to point at) would have mitigated some of the midterm damage and not stuck us with a ten-year gerrymandered disadvantage in the House.
Obama had a small window to be a truly transformative president. He blew it. He is in that regard much like Clinton, who had two years before the GOP rot set in to really change our rudder. Instead we still continued under both to move full bore towards the Club for Growth dream of an oligarchy. All I can say is, maybe next time. With the economy picking up and with the GOP likely to control both chambers of Congress from 2015-16, thus giving the country an eyeful of what they're really all about, we might finally see some progress in 2016 and in particular in 2020 when, on a general cycle, districts are redrawn based on the full electorate.
There is of course never a "permanent majority," but unless the right wakes up to how unpopular and extreme their positions are, the next realigning election is going to shift them to a (temporarily, I'm sure) regional curiosity rather than a national party. You can already see the right wing fighting the right wing of the right wing to ixne on the undamentalismfe. When Orrin Hatch is telling you to cool it with the cray-cray, you should check yourself. But it's not working, and I wonder whether at some point the adults will say, "let's let them have their nominee and their platform, unadulterated, once -- a little Goldwater goes a long way."