A friend of mine is a lawyer who does a lot of real estate, estate and probate work. We were talking about the patchwork situation of gay marriage recognized in some jurisdictions and not others, and the complications that will arise in peoples estates when they live one place, have real property in other states, and every state, and the feds, are going their own way. Very good for lawyers and accountants, pretty complicated for everyone else.But what if that couple then moves to state B which doesn't allow gay marriage? Do they file a joint federal return but two single returns in state B? Seems rather problematic. Several of the states I've lived in have items on the form that you just transfer over from your federal 1040 - they'd have to modify their forms (and probably accompanying tax regulations) to allow people to calculate their state tax directly without relying on the federal calculations.
Whether it's genetically embedded in their DNA or a behavior learned from the parents is irrelevant (I didn't say "birth") - your argument still hinges on the premise that children acquire "gayness" from their parents.When did I say that?! Wow, did you miss the mark.
The biggest argument that I hear about homosexuality, and this is purely from an objective standpoint, is that homosexual couples will either raise or have significant influence upon children and, in doing so, teach them the "deviant practices" of homosexuality. This does not mean that a certain sexual orientation births a certain sexual orientation.
Ah, yes, the old "SOME people believe..." Well, sorry, but they are idiots. My parents taught me that homosexuality is okay, too, but I don't have a homosexual bone in my body, so to speak.In fact, those that argue against homosexuality I have found, in many cases, believe that it is not something that comes from birth, but is rather something learned. After all, why else would there be "pray the gay away" retreats that attempt to cleanse the "sinner" of such witchcraft? The only thing that I wrote to Bob was playing off of this belief that if you protect children from these "heathens", they will soon be gone because they cannot create and teach "heathens" of their own, and the problem will evaporate.
Whether it's genetically embedded in their DNA or a behavior learned from the parents is irrelevant (I didn't say "birth") - your argument still hinges on the premise that children acquire "gayness" from their parents.
Ah, yes, the old "SOME people believe..." Well, sorry, but they are idiots. My parents taught me that homosexuality is okay, too, but I don't have a homosexual bone in my body, so to speak.Tons of straight people are out there right now teaching their kids that homosexuality is okay - guess we'll have to wait for them to die off, too...
Yeah - I guess it's really no different from the situation we had yesterday, when married gay couples could file jointly in their states but had to file separately for federal. Definitely good business for the lawyers and accountants!A friend of mine is a lawyer who does a lot of real estate, estate and probate work. We were talking about the patchwork situation of gay marriage recognized in some jurisdictions and not others, and the complications that will arise in peoples estates when they live one place, have real property in other states, and every state, and the feds, are going their own way. Very good for lawyers and accountants, pretty complicated for everyone else.
But sooner or later everyone will be back on the same page. It's just going to take awhile to drag people kicking and screaming to that place.
"The act itself"??? What exactly are you talking about here? Do you think there's only one homosexual "act"? Is it somehow a secret "act" that heterosexual parents don't know about and therefore can't teach their kids about? Or perhaps homosexual parents demonstrate this mysterious "act" for their kids to turn them gay? Is this "act" the same for gay male couples and for lesbian couples?Whether you believe them to be idiots is your prerogative. Your second paragraph completely missed the mark, as what I wrote had absolutely nothing to do with the tolerance or acceptance of homosexuality, but rather the act itself. On top of this, nowhere in my argument did I say anything about an exclusive direct relationship between parent and child. You can observe this through my use of the phrase "significant influence". This could include kids sitting in front of the boob tube watching "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy". I'm not going to try to derive a starting point, as that's like trying to derive the absolute beginning of evolution.
I will admit that my Constitutional knowledge is pretty basic, but aren't states required recognize same-sex marriages in other states through Article IV? Or is that another question for SCOTUS to answer?I would think that is a distinct possibility, but not necessarily a must, as the court did not rule on section 2 of DOMA. It probably comes down to the decision of each individual state to accept other states same-sex marriage licences or not regardless of the states own same-sex marriages or lack thereof.
I will admit that my Constitutional knowledge is pretty basic, but aren't states required recognize same-sex marriages in other states through Article IV? Or is that another question for SCOTUS to answer?
I will admit that my Constitutional knowledge is pretty basic, but aren't states required recognize same-sex marriages in other states through Article IV? Or is that another question for SCOTUS to answer?
Section 3. Read the procedural history.Hang on a second... what sections were declared unconstitutional? I saw nothing within Hon. Kennedy's ruling about specific sections being unconstitutional while other sections are OK.
Section 3. Read the procedural history.
You said it, not me.If killing in self defense is okay, then other forms of killing have to be also.
I will admit that my Constitutional knowledge is pretty basic, but aren't states required recognize same-sex marriages in other states through Article IV? Or is that another question for SCOTUS to answer?
That likely will be an issue sooner than later. I know I've seen news articles about folks who moved to Texas and then wanted to split, but Texas said they don't recognize the marriage to begin with, so they won't approve the split. Given how mobile our society is, this will become a bigger problem as times goes on, and will somehow need to be sorted out. Of course, one could argue that if they move to Texas, they know they're moving to a state that doesn't recognize their marriage, so it's no surprise that Texas wouldn't get involved in a divorce of a marriage they don't recognize.I will admit that my Constitutional knowledge is pretty basic, but aren't states required recognize same-sex marriages in other states through Article IV? Or is that another question for SCOTUS to answer?
Section 2 (which I understand is before the courts somewhere) is the section that says that State A does not have to recognize a marriage that occurs in State B?? But does Loving sort of put the kibosh to that line of reasoning??I think you've misunderstood the decisions. Gay marriage does not have to be recognized by the other states, just that if a state does recognize gay marriage, the federal laws won't discriminate against them. For example, if State A allows gay marriage, a gay married couple could now file a married filing jointly tax return.
My guess is there is going to be a lot of overreaction to the cases today when they really didn't do much.
Section 2 (which I understand is before the courts somewhere) is the section that says that State A does not have to recognize a marriage that occurs in State B?? But does Loving sort of put the kibosh to that line of reasoning??
I'm an accountant, not a lawyer.
The simplest remedy to me is for Congress to kill the whole DOMA with a quick vote. IMO, it's an easy pass.
I agree, it seems the easiest way to cut out a lot of this courtroom mess is to kill DOMA. It seems like Section 2 would get killed in court pretty quickly anyway.Section 2 (which I understand is before the courts somewhere) is the section that says that State A does not have to recognize a marriage that occurs in State B?? But does Loving sort of put the kibosh to that line of reasoning??
I'm an accountant, not a lawyer.
The simplest remedy to me is for Congress to kill the whole DOMA with a quick vote. IMO, it's an easy pass.