Re: The List for the 2019-2020 Season: Episode 1
Having no "List" items to report: Anti-List.
Two days in on my new job and it's going well. I'm making connections with the kids (little buddy today squeezed my finger and he thought I could help him). There's a single person restroom and the door locks, so I'm free to use the bathroom without a bunch of cis women saying I make them uncomfortable. I'm re-establishing a routine after being out of work for 5 months. I'm hearing the right pronouns from everyone there, and the lead tech is calling me "Miss Amber" with the kids I'm observing. The online training can be annoying, but I'm learning a lot, and I will put it into practice with the kids I'm instructing. I have a totally supportive staff around me and they're going to help me as I get going. I feel at home there, I feel like I belong there, and I know I can be a rock star there.
My foot is making all sorts of progress. I am now able to walk all the way back to the butter at Meijer, then to the baking aisle, the coffee aisle, the wine aisle (the essentials, right?), and over to the meat and produce area without pain. I am also able to make multiple trips up the stairs to bring in the groceries, plus do squats and lunges. This wasn't possible 5 months ago, and was painful before surgery.
Over two years ago, I walked into Out On the Lakeshore for the first time. I now know other trans people in my area, and I found the best adopted Mama anyone can ask for; I think we adopted each other. I even found my best friend because of OOTL, and when we go out to dinner, we spend time holding hands. One night, I was so tired, I fell asleep on her boob.
Even watching my cat play with a rubber band is amazing... I don't need cat toys. My cat also loves to "help" with yoga and Pilates.
So much more.