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Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
I ask again, what's wrong with that? That's where a good chunk of my family is.
I ask again, what's wrong with that? That's where a good chunk of my family is.
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Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
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Almington
Blood Boiling with Rage and Hate
Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
Good Luck to you sir. We'll hold your spot here open until we hear otherwise.
Good Luck to you sir. We'll hold your spot here open until we hear otherwise.
Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
But, the whole reason that I posted my original post this week is that she came up to visit (along with a couple of my brothers from my fraternity) this weekend for the Eagles/Bills game. Sunday was fun and then I took her to the Niagara Falls Butterfly Conservatory on Monday (she loves butterflies) and it was fantastic. Quotes include "Those first steps into the butterfly conservatory are something that I will never forget. Ever" "Nothing that I do this weekend will be as good as this past weekend" "It was almost unfair to be able to see you this weekend and have so much fun and then to have to leave again so suddenly", etc. And, so, I'm p*ssed at myself because I'm torturing myself by chasing so hard and putting both myself and her in impossible situations and I needed to vent and hear everyone b*tch at me for continuing to chase even though I've been friend-zoned.
I LOL'ed, but disagree that it's "hysterical."
No, it's a much longer story than I inferred with my original post or that I want to get into here. We met four years ago and I kinda chased her for a little while and then really backed off as soon as I found out that she had a boyfriend, but this year I said "Screw it" and went after her anyways. Again, there's much more to it than that, but I'm not about to go into it right now.
But, the whole reason that I posted my original post this week is that she came up to visit (along with a couple of my brothers from my fraternity) this weekend for the Eagles/Bills game. Sunday was fun and then I took her to the Niagara Falls Butterfly Conservatory on Monday (she loves butterflies) and it was fantastic. Quotes include "Those first steps into the butterfly conservatory are something that I will never forget. Ever" "Nothing that I do this weekend will be as good as this past weekend" "It was almost unfair to be able to see you this weekend and have so much fun and then to have to leave again so suddenly", etc. And, so, I'm p*ssed at myself because I'm torturing myself by chasing so hard and putting both myself and her in impossible situations and I needed to vent and hear everyone b*tch at me for continuing to chase even though I've been friend-zoned.
I can think of two, him and her dad. And, really doesn't like you is putting it mildly (obviously).
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FlagDUDE08
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state of hockey
He fixes the cable?
Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
I don't think you are entirely in the friend zone. Instead, you're on the hook.
I don't think you are entirely in the friend zone. Instead, you're on the hook.
collegehcky2
Vinegar Strokes
Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
I was actually thinking of embedding the HIMYM episode that goes over that in here, but I figured it was too over the top. You're right, it's the hook.
I was actually thinking of embedding the HIMYM episode that goes over that in here, but I figured it was too over the top. You're right, it's the hook.
MinnesotaNorthStar
Minding the gap
It's never too over the top...
Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
But when they've been dating for 5+ years and you've been on the hook for 14 months, does it really make a difference whether you refer to it as friend-zoned or on the hook? I mean, really, there's not too much difference in the end result.
But when they've been dating for 5+ years and you've been on the hook for 14 months, does it really make a difference whether you refer to it as friend-zoned or on the hook? I mean, really, there's not too much difference in the end result.
state of hockey
He fixes the cable?
Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
No difference at all. This answer is still cut the cord.
No difference at all. This answer is still cut the cord.
leswp1
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Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
The answer is that if she can be this verbally intimate with you, have such an incredibly tight relationship with you while professing her love to the BF I would not feel comfortable/ feel too much trust if she decides to ditch the BF. This is the equivilent of cheating without the sex. Woman does not have commitment boundries.
unofan
Well-known member
Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
Meh...I tend to think the whole "emotional affair" thing is kinda a load of b.s., you either have an affair or you don't, and there's certain physical acts involved if you do.
Now if you don't feel comfortable talking about things with your significent other, maybe that's a sign things aren't going so hot and you should re-evaluate why you're still together. But I don't think it's irreconcilable, unlike a true affair.
Meh...I tend to think the whole "emotional affair" thing is kinda a load of b.s., you either have an affair or you don't, and there's certain physical acts involved if you do.
Now if you don't feel comfortable talking about things with your significent other, maybe that's a sign things aren't going so hot and you should re-evaluate why you're still together. But I don't think it's irreconcilable, unlike a true affair.
leswp1
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Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
Sounds to me that this gal has given everything but her body to the guy. Once in awhile is OK but if you need that much attention outside your relationship there is a problem within it. Not saying people can't be close friends. Some of my best friends are guys but my husband is in the discussion once in awhile, not outside of it.
unofan
Well-known member
Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
Yeah, but we're also only getting the friend-who-wants-to-be-more's side of the story. Having been that guy in the not so distant past, I'm sure there's rose-colored glasses skewing his observations.
Yeah, but we're also only getting the friend-who-wants-to-be-more's side of the story. Having been that guy in the not so distant past, I'm sure there's rose-colored glasses skewing his observations.
FlagDUDE08
Banned
Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
I'm back. Not one I want to pursue.
I'm back. Not one I want to pursue.
Almington
Blood Boiling with Rage and Hate
Your spot at the bar is open.
FlagDUDE08
Banned
Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
Thanks. Now that I've had some time to think things through, I still wonder how the hell that one girl stuck with me for two months...
Thanks. Now that I've had some time to think things through, I still wonder how the hell that one girl stuck with me for two months...
collegehcky2
Vinegar Strokes
bigblue_dl
Armed
Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
So...what does a guy do when he gets a text message from a random number that says: Hey, (my name), its ______ from _____ bar, want to go get dinner tonight? I have no effing clue who this person is.
So...what does a guy do when he gets a text message from a random number that says: Hey, (my name), its ______ from _____ bar, want to go get dinner tonight? I have no effing clue who this person is.
Rimbaud
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Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!
Well, you gave her your number, which more than likely means you found her attractive, or at least she was attractive when you were really drunk. I say go for it. At worst you have a funny story. At best, you get to have some fun with a forward, assertive woman.
Well, you gave her your number, which more than likely means you found her attractive, or at least she was attractive when you were really drunk. I say go for it. At worst you have a funny story. At best, you get to have some fun with a forward, assertive woman.
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