Re: Shannon Miller out at UMD?
Are you really that ignorant of the way these sorts of things play out? People in similar situations have lied often. Sure, in theory it can be (though isn't always, depending upon your objectives) to mislead in your public statements but the empirical evidence is that there are a lot of individuals who don't let that get in the way of doing so. Being an empiricist, I tend to toss the theory when it conflicts with the evidence and so I retain a certain degree of skepticism about public statements in a conflict.
And that's aside from ARM's point about the fact that there are any events that can honestly be interpreted in different ways and so you shouldn't just rely upon one person's version even if she is speaking entirely in good faith.
You really need to pay attention. Maybe you should reread my post. Where did I claim that people don't often lie? Speaking of which, that is exactly what UMD has already done by initially insisting that it was strictly a financial decision and then Black's later letting it slip that it wasn't. I guess you missed that. And nothing Miller has said has been refuted to date...certainly not by UMD. So, for now, Miller has the moral high ground.
And while ARM's point about people's perceptions often colouring their account of a matter is true, (it's just human nature, unfortunately), the apparent details before the ambush aren't so many as to create a complicated narrative. And the fact that she came forward with this just days after it occurred minimizes, if not eliminates, the passage of time in which her memory of the events might be realistically challenged.
Could she be lying? Of course she could...she might be a sociopath...but until that becomes obvious, if ever, I'll give her the benefit of the doubt...innocent until proven guilty. Do you remember that one?
There's also more going on here that no one has yet commented on if they are even aware of it. Some bashers have claimed/pointed to her ego...possibly, rightfully so, but that's a slippery slope because the difference between extreme confidence and egotism is a very thin light grey line. But let's assume for the sake of argument that the egoists have it. She doesn't have that ego for no good reason...for having a 15 year losing record. She, overnight, built a dynasty and left all of her contemporaries in the dust. She prides herself on commitment to excellence and she tries to instill that in her players.
Have you ever had a tour of the 'Dogs' facilities at The Amsoil? If not, I would strongly recommend it. Everywhere are reminders of the greatness of the program, the tradition, the constant striving to achieve excellence and the resulting successes. This full colour graphic historic record of the program permeates the fabric of the team's mindset and as such is both a conscious and unconscious motivator. Miller also sees herself as being a role model for her players. To the extent that she's an egotist should also be the extent to which she buys in to her own promotion of the program to her players. In other words, buys into the narrative of the pursuit of the higher ideals that normally go hand in hand with being champions. And this is not something that just started occurring yesterday. It's been going on for over a decade coinciding with the tenure of her success. To knowingly lie about the details of her situation with UMD would also mean that she would have to face the fact that she's nothing but a cheap fraud by virtue of having violated all the higher ideals she has attempted to instill in her players for years. That's what consciences are for...for preventing us from violating our personal code of ethics...for keeping us true to ourselves. It's no small task to have to reconcile that with yourself once you've violated it because there's no going back.
And it's not like this is just a private squabble between two entities. As public as it would have been on its own, she has voluntarily elevated it to the global arena with all of its resulting scrutiny.
So, it's also for these reasons that I give her the benefit of the doubt. Could I be wrong? Of course I could be wrong. But I don't think that the smart money would bet that way.
And if you were to ever sit down with her and have a lengthy conversation you would soon discover that there is quite a difference between her public persona (at least how some perceive it) and her daily personality, certainly enough to cause you to examine your quick to judge negative/cynical opinion.
I'm a realist and have no problem being a cynic when the evidence is overwhelming because that is still being a realist...so I more than follow your thinking. It's just that I think that your "empiricist" attitude is not warranted in this particular situation, at least not yet.