I'm very complicated...
I admit it's not the cause, but I did say that it may have been the trigger to allow the symptoms to show. Not exposing my kids to that trigger may not bring about the same severity of the symptoms of they are pre-disposed. Or may not bring them out at all. Who knows until someone finally discovers the actual cause. Plus because I didn't see the danger of the delayed schedule it was an easy decision to make because I didn't see any increased risk of doing it.
I get people don't understand, but that is how I processed it. Plus you can't keep emotion out of decisions surrounding your family, especially when you see no negatives in making a decision to deviate from the norm. I can't imagine what my family would have been like if I had to go through the whole process of a diagnosis again. So anything to prevent that was considered since I still say it didn't endanger them any more than normal. The rest of my kids are fine so far... relatively speaking, so I don't regret it at all and I can work on screwing up their lives in any normal parenting fashion like trying to give a middle school kid advice on girls.