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Rep Retirement Lodge #167: Weather

Rep Retirement Lodge #167: Weather

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MavHockey14 said:
Lady friend today: "hey, everything alright?"

Me: Yes, I'm fine.

Lady friend: "that didn't sound very sincere.. But okay.

Ten minutes pass

Lady friend: "what's going on?"

75 minutes pass

Lady friend: ?

60 minutes pass

Me: I said I'm fine.

Lady friend: Well something's up.. Please tell me..

50 minutes pass

Lady friend: K cool. Don't text me back. Whatever then.

45 minutes pass

I write this post, and I'm giving her "the chase" she wanted.

*i'm not one to play games, and I really don't like treating her this way. I just don't know how else to react or try and make her understand I'm done waiting around to come at her calling.
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OK, I am in a cranky mood but Chiming in with the rest- UUTF are you doing? Following along with your posts and I can't figure out if you are ditching her, trying to get her back (stoopid idea) or taking a break-kinda. Relationship predictions:
a)you have now made her work and she will decide you are what she wants- does not bode well for long term relationship- prepare for cyclical drama for no matter how long you are with her because that is not real, adult relationship
b) you will remain in limbo- not really having a relationship but not really not having one- still waiting for the 'magic' you thought you had- does not bode well for long term relationship- prepare for cyclical drama for no matter how long you are with her
c) you wake up, smell the coffee, and realize that this is not going to be successful (no matter how many times you try to tell yourself or anyone else that it will be because~ she is 'the one') and really move on to discover who you are, not how she defines you or how you define you in the context of her.
 
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Good Morning Lodge.

Jr was awarded a letter for the sailing team last night. I am not impressed. To earn this all he had to do was show up - literally. If you go to practice, sail in the regattas and let the coaches know ahead of time if you can't make practice for some reason, you get a letter. You don't have to win any races, qualify for Varsity team, just show up. Everyone gets a trophy these days, I guess. :rolleyes:

I'm glad he found something he really likes and can do at the JV/Varsity level, but man I wish there was more to earning recognition.

I am not going to comment on Mavsy's relationship issues. I just hope something works out for him soon.
 
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goldy_331 said:
Good Morning Lodge.

Jr was awarded a letter for the sailing team last night. I am not impressed. To earn this all he had to do was show up - literally. If you go to practice, sail in the regattas and let the coaches know ahead of time if you can't make practice for some reason, you get a letter. You don't have to win any races, qualify for Varsity team, just show up. Everyone gets a trophy these days, I guess. :rolleyes:

I'm glad he found something he really likes and can do at the JV/Varsity level, but man I wish there was more to earning recognition.

I am not going to comment on Mavsy's relationship issues. I just hope something works out for him soon.
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Perhaps the letter is "I" for incomplete. ;)
 
Re: Rep Retirement Lodge #167: Weather

hockeyplayer1015 said:
Morning. Boat searching is a frustrating thing.
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You forgot where you left it? Perhaps you should have one of those things that people use to locate their cars in mall parking lots. :)

On second thought, do you have a torpedo ready to fire? :eek:
 
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Ralph Baer said:
You forgot where you left it? Perhaps you should have one of those things that people use to locate their cars in mall parking lots. :)

On second thought, do you have a torpedo ready to fire? :eek:
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Can't he just click the remote on his key chain and watch the lights flash?
 
Re: Rep Retirement Lodge #167: Weather

Almington said:
You're not giving her the chase, your just being mean and stupid at the same time.

Seriously, you can talk with her and still give her the chase. If you don't want to talk with her, say so. Or say that you just have stuff to do and can't talk now. Ignoring her is just childish and immature.

You keep this up all you are going to do is drive her away permanently.
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I disagree. There are many reasons why he wouldn't be able to text her back regularly, and she essentially **** a brick. She obviously has no ****ing clue what she wants, and I think finally mav is going the right direction.

Mav, I don't have a problem with you wanting to not text her back, I've been there in the past when people keep texting me and I just want nothing to do with it for one reason or another. The one thing that I'd recommend is telling her straight up "You are still acting like I'm your boyfriend, you need to stop this. You wanted space, and that is what I'm giving you." Excuse the cliche, but she wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants to have a boyfriend type person there to talk to, and to support her, but she doesn't want you to have the title "boyfriend". She is trying to use you. Tell her one last time that you won't go for this behavior, and then cut off all contact for the summer. If you feel like you want to re-evaluate in the fall, go for it, but I doubt you will want to.
 
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bigblue_dl said:
I disagree. There are many reasons why he wouldn't be able to text her back regularly, and she essentially **** a brick. She obviously has no ****ing clue what she wants, and I think finally mav is going the right direction.

Mav, I don't have a problem with you wanting to not text her back, I've been there in the past when people keep texting me and I just want nothing to do with it for one reason or another. The one thing that I'd recommend is telling her straight up "You are still acting like I'm your boyfriend, you need to stop this. You wanted space, and that is what I'm giving you." Excuse the cliche, but she wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants to have a boyfriend type person there to talk to, and to support her, but she doesn't want you to have the title "boyfriend". She is trying to use you. Tell her one last time that you won't go for this behavior, and then cut off all contact for the summer. If you feel like you want to re-evaluate in the fall, go for it, but I doubt you will want to.
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Right. Mavsy, you can talk to her, but you don't need to always be there for her at her beck and call. Go out and do stuff, something that wouldn't leave you near your cell phone for a while.
 
MavHockey14 said:
Lady friend today: "hey, everything alright?"

Me: Yes, I'm fine.

Lady friend: "that didn't sound very sincere.. But okay.

Ten minutes pass

Lady friend: "what's going on?"

75 minutes pass

Lady friend: ?

60 minutes pass

Me: I said I'm fine.

Lady friend: Well something's up.. Please tell me..

50 minutes pass

Lady friend: K cool. Don't text me back. Whatever then.

45 minutes pass

I write this post, and I'm giving her "the chase" she wanted.

*i'm not one to play games, and I really don't like treating her this way. I just don't know how else to react or try and make her understand I'm done waiting around to come at her calling.
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"I'm sorry, but I was getting my Johnson waxed. If I didn't reply back immediately I don't know how to explain it any better than 'I didn't txt people while you were satisfying me, why do you expect me to do in kind to the next girl?'"
 
St. Clown said:
Then tell her to stop contacting you you for the summer with these little check-ins if she wanted distance. She can't have it both ways with you, either in or out. She won't figure out whatever the hell it is she's looking for this way, and blah, blah, blah. You'll figure out what to say.

I can't wait for this week to end, so bored sitting at home and not able to do jack.
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That's exactly what I said. I don't want a part time relationship. It's full time or no time. I told her I deserve better than that.

I basically flat out reiterated to her that I'm not waiting around for her to make up her mind. I'm moving on because I deserve someone who appreciates me for who I am, and what I do. I also told her I deserve someone who is willing to fight through struggles and face their fears with me.

I also told her that if she truly loved me and truly believed "I'm the one" she wouldn't be running away from it. So I reiterated that I'm not here on a part time, come as you go basis. It's either full time, or no time.
 
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Cause I would like to start the new thread but I know this needs to get to 1000 replies...
 
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Should I just start making the next thread and hope this one closes before I finish making it?
 
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Getting this to 1000 replies will be easy since I can keep posting like this for a few minutes. The real question is when does the thread actually lock.... I know I've been posting on here a while but I can't remember.
 
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