Re: Religion Thread: We Could Say a Prayer
It's not Church dogma that a family is a man and a woman. That's a social convention. But it also isn't going to change for centuries.
Holy Mother Church is always about 500 years behind the rest of the West. They finally took their foot off the Jews' throat over Jesus in, like, 1965. Obviously the church bureaucracy isn't going to understand marriage equality -- the West didn't even start to get their heads screwed on straight about that until the 1980s in even the most enlightened countries. We still have a huge number of living people in this country who will literally never get it. It's a software upgrade that is incompatible with their old hardware. Like the racists and sexists of the past, they will die saying "that doesn't look like anything to me." No doubt changes are coming which will similarly be too advanced for you and me. Humanity evolves, but individuals live and die frozen in the mindset of their upbringing.
As the Senate is a cooling pan, the Vatican is a glacier. It moves s l o w l y, but it does move. Obviously this really sucks for some things (various oppressions, from atheists to gays to women). In other things it's actually pretty good -- the Church has still not embraced the psychotic capitalism of the West (which remember is still less than 200 years old -- it's air to us, but to most of human history it's a passing stomach virus) and continually reminds people of inconvenient facts about Jesus preaching about being kind of the poor and those other "losers." The Church is, in a sense, the only Western institution that is not completely compromised by the 1%. They have a power elite, of course, but it's a different breed of cat.
I don't expect a Pope, even one as apparently humane as Francis, to turn this 1500-year old aircraft carrier on a dime. It's going to be a long, long arc towards justice and a lot of people will be hurt needlessly in the ensuing period. But it's good to have at least one institution that is targeting human good. Scientific institutions are morally neutral and economic institutions are morally reprehensible. The Church is at least committed to good. Even though most of the people in it are eejits and many of its precepts are the vestigial baggage of the species' lizard brain, it has A Plan, and it's thinking in terms of centuries. Give it time.