Thank you.
My intuition is that the expected value of a gun with respect to personal safety is negative in most places -- i.e., the likelihood of injuring yourself or a loved one is far higher than the likelihood that you will sustain less injury from an attack because of your gun. The only circumstances I can imagine a gun being a net safety positive are in an actual war zone where there's a high likelihood of multiple incidents of personal danger or in a very rural area (as in Alaska, not Tennessee) where bear etc. attacks are sufficiently likely to overwhelm the odds of an accident.
Guns make a certain personality type feel safer, just like TSA checks at airports make a certain personality type feel safer. Marketing is about perception, not reality, so it is easy to sell guns (or push through TSA programs).
Now add the cultural totem status of a gun and it becomes impossible to have a rational policy discussion about them. So I suggest we "debase" the cultural currency of guns by breaking their association with redneck rights of passage, not to get rid of guns, but just so we can have a sane national debate. In effect, we should try to grow Group 1 until it is larger than Group 2. Then an alliance of Group 1 and Group 0 (the gun-neutral / anti-gun electorate) will be successful. Group 1 has earned a seat at the table. That won't make absolutist gun banners (call them Group -1) happy, but like Group 2, they aren't helping anyone anyway.
Good post this. It gets overlooked a lot but I think a lot of the reason behind the NRA being more extreme is a reaction to the anti-gun groups.