Brandon, you and Quiz should take a trip to Phx and ride some bikes and pick out the ones you like.
That said, I agree wholeheartedly with these two pieces of advice:
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The difference between the position you ride on a tri and road bike is pretty dramatic. You can adjust a tri bike to be closer to your road bike feel, but then you take away a lot of the benefits of the tri bike. Some people just never get comfortable on a tri bike, and if you can't be comfortable on a bike, you certainly can't go fast on it. Others take to it and never have any comfort issues. As Dirty Bottles said, test ride as many bikes (of both varieties) and see which one fits you the best.