Re: Boston University 2018-2019 - Still Alive!
Yes. BUT...that's not a given either. Not everyone responds to that personality type. The key is for the coach to RECOGNIZE who he can yell at, scream at, embarrass and who he has to pull aside privately, or give encouragement to in place of criticism. Understanding the difference is the key to success. Most people only have one style and it won't "fit all." Managing people is a very complex task. It takes patience, compassion and acute awareness of the personality types of the people who are working under you. And, in many cases the best players don't make the best coaches exactly BECAUSE they can't relate to people who don't pick things up as easily as they did. Little things like rolling your eyes at the wrong time when someone doesn't "get it" can totally derail someone's psyche. You have to know when you can and when you can't call someone out or embarrass them publicly versus when it's best to air your grievances in private. For better or worse, for right or wrong, the style back in Jack's day won't cut it in today's world of pampered people (not just athletes). Did you see the uproar over the Michigan State BB coach (Tom Izzo) when he screamed at his player coming off the court during a time out? People actually called for his firing!! These are the same people who call child services when a parent yells at their kid in the grocery store. Coaching is something that I don't even think I'd want to do today, frankly.
I just finished reading "Wise Guys" Man, I wish Jack O'Callahan had gone down the coaching track. Can you imagine his personality, smarts, and competitiveness behind the BU bench?![]()
Yes. BUT...that's not a given either. Not everyone responds to that personality type. The key is for the coach to RECOGNIZE who he can yell at, scream at, embarrass and who he has to pull aside privately, or give encouragement to in place of criticism. Understanding the difference is the key to success. Most people only have one style and it won't "fit all." Managing people is a very complex task. It takes patience, compassion and acute awareness of the personality types of the people who are working under you. And, in many cases the best players don't make the best coaches exactly BECAUSE they can't relate to people who don't pick things up as easily as they did. Little things like rolling your eyes at the wrong time when someone doesn't "get it" can totally derail someone's psyche. You have to know when you can and when you can't call someone out or embarrass them publicly versus when it's best to air your grievances in private. For better or worse, for right or wrong, the style back in Jack's day won't cut it in today's world of pampered people (not just athletes). Did you see the uproar over the Michigan State BB coach (Tom Izzo) when he screamed at his player coming off the court during a time out? People actually called for his firing!! These are the same people who call child services when a parent yells at their kid in the grocery store. Coaching is something that I don't even think I'd want to do today, frankly.
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