Re: All Things Denver, XXVIII
Geez!! I'm so happy about his results, but I can't stop the "what ifs".
There will always be "what if's". Life is full of them. Luckily, Martin seems to be one of those people of extraordinary character, which helps when you are faced with a whole litany of "what ifs."
Decisions we (or others) make can have a huge impact on your life, and those you care about. Jesse chose to play a dangerous sport. Jesse also chose to look down at the puck instead of looking up at the Brad Malone freight train coming at him. Malone chose to make an illegal hit instead of hitting Martin differently or avoiding him. The Martin family chose a surgical pathway, and the doctors chose a treatment plan, and no one can be 100% sure how this will end up.
Right now, it looks good for Jesse on many aspects of future life. He's still alive, walking and not paralyzed. It looks as though he'll be able to do most of the things he could do before the hit. He'll likely get his degree, get a job, have a family and a chance to build what most of us consider to be a normal North American life. That's a huge plus for him and puts him ahead of 90-95% of the people in the world, many of whom live in poverty and who won't have the college degree and career and lifestyle options Jesse will have. As Martin said so well, it's not about glass half full or empty, it's about still having the glass. That's a great attitude for now, but as his life moves from the hospital to rehab to real life, I would imagine he'll return to a more normal menu of typical wants and desires. He'll be still be surrounded by a peer group of very talented people, which has its ups and downs.
The big mystery here is whether or not he'll ever get to play the game he loves again. Right now, I wouldn't blame him if he never set foot in the rink again. He did sustain some spinal cord damage, and it's unclear right now how much of that damage will be permanent, and how much can be regained through rehab. He's an elite athlete who will have the best in rehab care and given Jesse's character, I sure wouldn't bet against him, and If I were his doctor, I sure as hell wouldn't tell him "no."
Jesse, like most drafted players at elite D-I college programs, is in the top 1-2% of hockey players in the world, and most of these guys do get a shot at some level of pro hockey after college.The scary side of this story is the potential of the neuro damage he sustained, and his ability to restore the fine motor control in his arms and hands that makes him a potential professional athlete - those 'special skills' that seperate him from those who play at lower levels or just recreationally. Being a pro hockey player is a goal that was literally five months away from his grasp before the accident, and we're all holding our breath to some extent to see what happens to that dream...