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Re: University of North Dakota... the March past March
Another article very similar but with additional information.
http://www.thestar.com/sports/hocke...-prospect-matt-frattin-turned-his-life-around
Nice article about Frattin, in of all places, The New York Times.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/04/03/sports/03frattin.html
Another article very similar but with additional information.
http://www.thestar.com/sports/hocke...-prospect-matt-frattin-turned-his-life-around
Giby Frattin is a tough, no-nonsense boss. “I have 50 employees, and 99.9 percent are whiners,” said the owner of two Edmonton bakeries. But one doesn’t have to listen hard to sense the pride he has in his son, Matt. “He learned a lesson; it turned his life around,” Giby said.
Hakstol called his meeting with Frattin one of the most difficult ever with a player. “Matt is a great person,” Hakstol said. “He is an honest young man. He is a fun guy to be around. He is laid back. “But his focus was not there.”
Said Frattin: “It was tough to hear. But it was a lot tougher to call my dad and tell him what happened. He let me go off on my own and this is the way I repay him—getting kicked out of school and (losing my) scholarship.” So Frattin went home to Edmonton to live with his parents. “He was scared, very scared—over the path he took and facing his parents, who paid his bills how many years,” said Giby Frattin, the son of Italian immigrants. “We talked about (what happened) twice and never brought it up again. We could have taunted, taunted and he would not have healed. They weren’t pretty, those two conversations.”
“The biggest thing (my father) told me was never give up on your goals, the things you want to accomplish in life,” he remembered. Said his father: “If you have skeletons, the only way to bury them is face them.” “Work never scared him,” Giby added. “If you asked him to cut the grass, the grass was cut.” Soon Matt started putting in 11-hour days on a cement crew. He did everything from setting in the framework for sidewalks and driveways to flattening the cement after it was poured. He also stayed in touch with friends on the hockey team and worked out as hard as he could. Hakstol told him he might be able to rejoin the team for practices only during the second half of the 2009-10 season. In early December, Hakstol called with a better offer—the chance to play in January. Frattin agreed without hesitation. “We didn’t need lights in this house—Matthew lit up the whole room,” Giby Frattin said. The redemption started.
Frattin returned despite no scholarship. Out-of-state tuition and other expenses would cost $9,000 for a semester. He asked his father for the money, who told him to borrow it.
“With his talent and the kind of dedication he has had the last year and a half, a lot of us saw this coming,” said Malone, who remains one of his linemates. “But he is playing a little better than we expected.”
Giby Frattin tears up sometimes watching Matt play, knowing the price his son paid. “We knew he had potential, but not to this extreme,” Giby said. Hakstol has seen the tough love pay off. “Character is revealed through your actions,” the North Dakota coach said. “The easy thing for Matt would been to take the easy route, become a pro athlete.” Frattin visits a counsellor once a month. His counsellor is someone with whom he can be honest and talk to about anything, Frattin said.
Interestingly, Frattin almost didn’t go to North Dakota. He had five recruiting visits, the maximum allowed, set up when the Sioux called. He cancelled one of those trips to visit Grand Forks in 2007. While there, he called home with the news that he had signed a national letter of intent. That upset Giby Frattin: “We always told him, ‘Don’t sign nothing until you talk to your parents.’ “ But his son knew what to say: “You always said it was my decision.” Just as the other tough decisions have been.