I never 'trashed a kid'....if anything I 'trashed' you [more or less an adult, I assume] who strike me as the typical clueless hockey mom [somehow goalie parents fall into that category more times than not...maybe it's the pressure or the price of the equipment] who is blinded by the dream and can't see reality.
Let's face the facts....She was a late recruit, meaning, she was clearly being looked at as a backup to the starter [who if you had done your research, would have told you that at least in year one and two, your kid was not going to play much...To think otherwise was unrealistic]. As for those 'other opportunities'...come on mom-- think about them...my guess is there may have been some luke-warm interest at some other lower D-1 or D-3 schools, but either there wasn't real interest or the admissions office said no dice. Union was the only option, and it was as a backup.
As for your "Canada wins" comments....puuulease. Considering that hockey means 'everything' to the Cannukks, and 'nothing' to 99.999% of America, the fact that we do as well as we do is no small miracle. Now pick any other sport and see who does all the cross-boarder 'winning' Good day, mom.