Simply put, UNH "caved" when BS35+2 failed to back his coach. Brief recap - the offending player was already a disciplinary issue, Coach Mac wanted to drop her from the program, BS35+2 pleaded with him to keep the player on for Title IX requirements, Coach Mac said OK, disciplinary issues continued with the same player and the same issues, all culminating in a home game against OSU when said player was pulled from her shift earlier than expected, skated back to the bench with a profanity-laced tirade directed at Coach Mac, who then forcefully seated her and grabbed her by the mask to tell her that kind of conduct would no longer be tolerated.
Player whines to her parents, parents complain to the school, BS35+2 has a choice to make between an underperforming player with an established attitude problem and an underperforming (and highly paid) head coach who he can now opportunistically fire "for cause".
BS35+2 fires Coach Mac, and UNH bumps the offending player - a borderline bottom of the roster type - from partial to full scholarship for her final two seasons (including last season). This is a player who started her UNH career as a forward, and has a grand total of four (4) goals combined over those three seasons.
In the meantime, Coach Mac has been hired this summer as head coach of the professional Boston Blades. Ironically, by a woman. And backed one of UNH's greatest ever women's player.
If that's not "caving" then maybe I guess we just have different standards for the term.
You say UNH made a "good decision". I say they took the easy way out; to me "easy" does not equate to "good".
What's "tiresome" to me is the PC mindset that allowed BS35+2 to take the easy way out with ample cover. Admittedly, Coach Mac put himself in a tricky position when he let the player continue with his program, and complicated that when he physically accosted her while he was chewing her out on the bench.
Long and short, someone was eventually going to pay the price at the coaching level to set a precedent, and unfortunately for Coach Mac it was him. I'm guessing the situation now down in UConn will be the next test case on "bullying" etc.
I'll leave it for you to comment on whether the fact that the players involved in both the UNH and UConn situations were bottom-roster players who were facing the potential loss of their scholarships was just a coincidence OR something perhaps more ...