Chuck (or anyone else who is more knowledgeable about soccer than I), I'm just curious to get your opinion about the World Cup, your being a soccer coach. I'm not a soccer aficionado; however, when you watch sports your entire life there are enough commonalities to make a general assessment. IMO, a lot of the "problem" (if one perceives that it is indeed a problem) is that the game is simply not embedded deeply in our culture. Not to mention that most of the better US athletes play other sports. Also, is it me or does the US team look "small?" I look at the size of these teams in the back line and the US seems to get smothered. Perhaps they don't move the ball quickly enough. The hockey analogy would be a power play where the five players are stationary. Sometimes it seems as if there is no off ball movement by the US and they seem to wait until they are completely surrounded before getting rid of it. None of this is particularly surprising to me, since we all know that it takes years to develop instincts for a game and that usually results from playing it every day from the time you are a kid.
I think you've hit on a few of the key differentiators, chickod. And I think it's important to note that US Soccer is WAY more developed nowadays than it was just a generation ago. The roots of the sport are much more deeply embedded in the US, the amount of skilled and knowledgeable coaching available to kids is FAR beyond what existed when my eldest was playing as a pre-teen (she still plays as a 30-ish mother and English teacher in a local HS). MLS is actually a real live competitive league these days, and it's expanded - profitably - way beyond the initial footprint, and the support is at the lower levels of semi-pro feeder clubs/leagues. Just as a simple issue, MLS supports hundreds of domestic players at a reasonably high level, and allows the cream of the crop to be poached by the bigger clubs in the bigger leagues in Europe and beyond.
There has been progress made, but expectations also need to be realistic. I mean, how long has it taken for other large countries to compete on a level with the US (NBA) in basketball? The US has been in the ice hockey business for a long time now, and even though there have been moments of excellence, it's been in a much shallower field of competition, and the US still lags behind the likes of Canada, Russia and Sweden, if not arguably others. Making it to the knockout round in a World Cup is nothing to sneeze at.
But yeah, as nicely as soccer has grown (and continues to grow) in the US, it's still well behind a lot of other sports who are competing for the best athletes, and have a head start culturally over here of decades if not a century. You point out the size of the backs, and that's accurate. The US National Team still does quite a bit of business by looking at players who have a split heritage, and can walk into a competitive role on our team here as opposed to (say) Germany or Italy or some other global soccer powerhouse. Kids who grow up in the US, the best athletes get paid the most money in football, or hoops ... those same kids in Amsterdam, well, you work hard and dream of playing/training with Ajax, which holds the key to the money tree in their corner of the universe.
The younger US generations now have easy access to watching the best soccer leagues in the world, and that's probably the best development I've seen in the last decade. Media coverage is slowly gaining, but still behind the Big Four sports here. You'll know the US has cracked it with soccer when someday you have the Felger & Mazz-type talk shows dealing with the sport regularly, and not just every four years, here & there.
As an aside ... one of the things I've always said to new players is, if you don't like to run (a lot), this may not be the sport for you. There is nothing easy about running on-and-off for the better part of an hour-plus, covering an acre of land mass. And the games get longer, and the pitch gets bigger as you get older and better. A lot of that running does not get rewarded. And scoring a goal in soccer is one of the hardest things you can do as a player. To excel in the sport - as in any sport - requires a lot of hard work and sacrifice. And the competition pool is the deepest and most challenging in the world, without question (thanks British Empire!).
Thanks to Title IX in the US, the Women's National Team experienced a boom well in advance of the Men's team, and that was because women did not have football or baseball/softball as paying sports options as players. So the most athletic US women not committed to Olympics track and field events play basketball or soccer, with hockey a distant 3rd. The rest of the world did not have Title IX, so the US Women had been dominant in soccer for a long time, but now the rest of the world is starting to catch up to THEM. Which is an interesting reversal of roles, and points the relative "lagging" of the US Men's Team most likely to societal issues.
When I was a kid, soccer teams in HS were hardly a given, and club-level support was extremely thin. The NASL played a shortened season with foreign cast-offs, lower league players and over-the-hill stars (see Pele, Beckenbauer, Chinaglia, etc.), and the media barely blinked as a curiosity factor. Now you have a real league that employs US players, and MLS clubs (and USL clubs) are actually profitable, and the media is providing WAY more coverage than in the past. The USMNT has more truly home-grown players than ever before. It will take time, and there will be setbacks (heck, Germany and Mexico, among others, were out before the knockout rounds). I'll probably not make it long enough to see the Men win, but with the competition in North America next time, and with a very good young team coming through, I wouldn't be at all surprised to see the US make it to the WC Semifinals in 2026. And THAT would be off the hook exciting. JMHO.