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The Power of the SCOTUS Part VII - The Bedrock of the Republic!

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polygamist same-sex marriage? they tried something similar in the 1960s, back then it was called "communal living."

Everything old is new again, eh?
Ricky and Ron love Natalie and Nancy, and vice versa. All 4 are strongly hetero. Trouble is, if Ricky says he wants to marry Nancy, Natalie is going to be upset. Ditto for Ron. So Ricky and Ron marry Natalie and Nancy. Who sleeps with whom varies.

Legal? Currently, Ricky marries Nat and Ron marries Nancy. They swap wives (husbands). Kids are communally raised. No problem, right, under current laws?

But current law would have major cows in 4 consenting adults were considered one "family unit". Why not recognize polymory??
 
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Ricky and Ron love Natalie and Nancy, and vice versa. All 4 are strongly hetero. Trouble is, if Ricky says he wants to marry Nancy, Natalie is going to be upset. Ditto for Ron. So Ricky and Ron marry Natalie and Nancy. Who sleeps with whom varies.

Legal? Currently, Ricky marries Nat and Ron marries Nancy. They swap wives (husbands). Kids are communally raised. No problem, right, under current laws?

But current law would have major cows in 4 consenting adults were considered one "family unit". Why not recognize polymory??

My understanding is that the gubmint doesn't want one guy having 7 wives because that leads to 30 kids, which few people in the population can support. That puts them on the govt dole. Now one could argue if someone makes a pledge not to use govt resources, then should they be allowed to marry multiple wives? I say the answer is still no as you can't guarantee that will always be the case plus its most likely unhealthy to grow up in a household with that many siblings including many of the same age (see the Duggars!!! :eek:).
 
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But current law would have major cows in 4 consenting adults were considered one "family unit". Why not recognize polymory??

Because of the complexities of benefits and other economic by-products of marriage. Being a spouse confers all sorts of rights. As long as we're dealing with pairs that's fine. But if all the adults in Delaware announce they're a 500k-person group marriage, it breaks the system.

It has nothing to do with morality, if that's what you're asking.
 
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Ricky and Ron love Natalie and Nancy, and vice versa. All 4 are strongly hetero. Trouble is, if Ricky says he wants to marry Nancy, Natalie is going to be upset. Ditto for Ron. So Ricky and Ron marry Natalie and Nancy. Who sleeps with whom varies.

Legal? Currently, Ricky marries Nat and Ron marries Nancy. They swap wives (husbands). Kids are communally raised. No problem, right, under current laws?

But current law would have major cows in 4 consenting adults were considered one "family unit". Why not recognize polymory??
Keep barking - you might by random chance find a tree holding a boogeyman someday.

I'll type this s--l--o--w--l--y so you can understand:

Poly marriage could be legalized by a state legislature, but the courts have not ruled that there is a Constitutional right to poly marriage and I seriously doubt that they will within the next 50 years. The vast majority of people who support gay marriage do not support poly marriage, and that is a perfectly consistent, perfectly legal position. Pouting in the corner going, "but why? but why? but why?" just makes you look like a 3-year-old. Stop it.
 
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Wow. Even worse that it's a Catholic organization. Bigotry was peachy keen for 2000 years, but now it's suddenly a problem? Hilarious. Not so fun INSIDE the barrel, is it?

All Christians need to learn that intolerance of their intolerance, is NOT hypocrisy.
 
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It's fair question and one we should ask ourselves from time to time to check our biases. What strikes me is how hard some people will work to oppose policies of inclusion.

The reason people oppose policies of inclusion is because exclusionary policies are used to enforce said "inclusion". Take a look at affirmative action, for example. Race still matters. You have to have a certain percentage of a race in order to "not look racist". In essence, you have to be racist to not be racist. That doesn't make much sense. If we really wanted to end -ism, we would offer apprenticeships, interviews, and similar opportunities to any willing person regardless of classification. Even equal opportunity employers shuffle the order of candidates in various interview rounds based upon race, gender, age, and whatever other classification comes up. They can't say yes/no based upon them, but they stack the deck to take advantage of a typical "first come first serve" mentality.
 
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All Christians need to learn that intolerance of their intolerance, is NOT hypocrisy.

Not all. Plenty of them are tolerant, and plenty of them understand that though they have objections in a secular nation they don't get to enact their faith as law.

Behind the front line of noisy self-appointed martyrs, most Christians understand and approve of separation of church and state.
 
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Not all. Plenty of them are tolerant, and plenty of them understand that though they have objections in a secular nation they don't get to enact their faith as law.

Behind the front line of noisy self-appointed martyrs, most Christians understand and approve of separation of church and state.

Atheists sure as heck don't approve of it. They're trying to get the government to establish their religion.
 
Because of the complexities of benefits and other economic by-products of marriage. Being a spouse confers all sorts of rights. As long as we're dealing with pairs that's fine. But if all the adults in Delaware announce they're a 500k-person group marriage, it breaks the system.

It has nothing to do with morality, if that's what you're asking.

Never did, though some of the liberals may have thought so, given my stances on other issues. I believe that given recent court rulings, the old societal definitions have been tossed in favor of consenting adults who love each other.

Good thing? Or bad thing? Time will judge.
 
My understanding is that the gubmint doesn't want one guy having 7 wives because that leads to 30 kids, which few people in the population can support. That puts them on the govt dole. Now one could argue if someone makes a pledge not to use govt resources, then should they be allowed to marry multiple wives? I say the answer is still no as you can't guarantee that will always be the case plus its most likely unhealthy to grow up in a household with that many siblings including many of the same age (see the Duggars!!! :eek:).

They haven't gone after professional athletes, have they? :)
 
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Atheists sure as heck don't approve of it. They're trying to get the government to establish their religion.

Absence of declarative statement does not equal declarative statement of absence.
 
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This is a great piece.

Money shot:

In reality, however, there was a subterranean argument that actually is logical and makes perfect sense. It was never just about man-woman marriages. The tradition that is disappearing is the belief that marriage is a duty, especially for women. As Douthat argues, Americans are rejecting “the old rules, its own hopes of joy and happiness to chase.”

Douthat isn’t wrong on the facts, even if he’s wrong on his assessment of them. It’s true that women in modern society no longer feel like they have to be married to be granted entrance into adult society. Single women living by and supporting themselves is no longer considered scandalous. Marriage is, bit by bit, becoming more about a partnership between equals who choose each other for the purpose of love and happiness. Which means it’s becoming less about giving men control over women’s lives.

In this sense, Douthat isn’t wrong that “support for same-sex marriage and the decline of straight marital norms exist in a kind of feedback loop.” To accept same-sex marriage is to accept this modern idea that marriage is about love and partnership, instead of about dutiful procreation and female submission. Traditional gender roles where husbands rule over wives are disintegrating and that process is definitely helped along by these new laws allowing that marriage doesn’t have to be a gendered institution at all.

I finally understand the conservative wailing that gay marriage will "destroy heterosexual marriage." What it really means is, this reframes marriage as something other than the man's protection of and dominion over his wife and kids. That cinematic fantasy that underpins the conservative worldview has just been tossed out as obsolete. That must be truly threatening.
 
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Poly marriage could be legalized by a state legislature, but the courts have not ruled that there is a Constitutional right to poly marriage and I seriously doubt that they will within the next 50 years. The vast majority of people who support gay marriage do not support poly marriage, and that is a perfectly consistent, perfectly legal position. Pouting in the corner going, "but why? but why? but why?" just makes you look like a 3-year-old. Stop it.
You don't like me, and, frankly, I don't like you. But I have not put you on ignore - yet.

But let me ask you a question or two based on your post. You'd be OK with a legislative solution to poly as opposed to the courts? I seems you are staking out a position 180 degrees from your stated position on SSM. Or have I misinterpreted?
 
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You don't like me, and, frankly, I don't like you. But I have not put you on ignore - yet.

But let me ask you a question or two based on your post. You'd be OK with a legislative solution to poly as opposed to the courts? I seems you are staking out a position 180 degrees from your stated position on SSM. Or have I misinterpreted?
You've misinterpreted. With respect to gay marriage, I was happy each time a state legislature approved gay marriage, just as I was happy when SCOTUS clarified that there is a fundamental right for it nationally. In other words, I would have been just as happy if all 50 legislatures approved it (plus Congress for the districts and territories) as with a SCOTS ruling. With respect to poly marriage, I would be *indifferent* (as opposed to happy) either way - so long as there are no extra benefits handed out to people in poly marriages and we aggressively enforce existing laws on rape, incest, coercion, and abuse. I just don't think there's a large enough proportion of the population that wants a poly arrangement for it to make a hill of beans of difference in the grand scheme of things.
 
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This is a great piece.

Money shot:



I finally understand the conservative wailing that gay marriage will "destroy heterosexual marriage." What it really means is, this reframes marriage as something other than the man's protection of and dominion over his wife and kids. That cinematic fantasy that underpins the conservative worldview has just been tossed out as obsolete. That must be truly threatening.
That is a great quote and a great way to understand why so many people have struggled with this issue.

I would like to say that you are definitely not talking about me. I view myself as conservative but then again, I care way more about the fiscal issues than the social issues. I obviously feel more libertarian than anything and worked very hard in the republican party of minnesota to help Ron Paul. Although based on other things you've said, you probably think I'm a wacko just as much as the social conservatives...
 
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