maybe because The Last Jedi is a much superior movie than TFA was?

That is my opinion as well...part of it may be the overanalysis (imo) I'm hearing from friends: A. It makes no sense, plot holes, Rose and Holdo suck. B. Makes a political point by putting women in charge everywhere. C. Then the opposite nutbag viewpoint: the movie is racist, sexist, etc
D. Luke would never x, Jedi never y, Leia = Mary Poppins etc
I'm usually fine with criticism of movies, books or films I like or love. This time around I just can't take the endless barrage. Even Forbes writing article daily about tickets sales...ugh
As for the points about women in control and the movie being an uber feminist polemic... I told a friend to get a grip. There was a movie in 1977 that featured a rescue of a princess by a walking carpet, a farm boy, a crazy wizard and a self-centered rogue. When push came to shove they had no plan so she took control...gasp??? What??? A woman took control?
I think that's what bugs me the most, the bs politicization of a sci-fi fantasy. EDIT: politicization by alt-right and even some uber left leaning people.
This isn't Joseph Conrad, Kafka, Coppola or Scorsese, Morrison or Alexie.