So let's kick the tires on this.
1) If Islam was a unique source of direct abuse, Islamic doctrine would validate that abuse. It does not. Although it discusses Jihad, that is not oppression of its own people. In fact, the Quran explicitly mandates equal treatment of all people. There are clearly other factors at work 2) Ideologies have always been used for personal and abusive purposes. Can you imagine a situation where 'capitalism' or 'socialism' was used to abuse someone? Can you think of a time when 'nationalism' was used for terrible purposes? The concepts of capitalism and socialism are inherently not bad. 3) If Islam was a unique source of direct abuse, wouldn't you expect Muslims coming to this country to be abusive and criminal? I assume you're pretty familiar with the Somali community in MN. They are both culturally current and crime/abuse isn't just the same as the white community - its lower than the white community. While others here might not feel this way, Muslims are both a positive and IMO welcome part of the city.
As a fellow analyst/strategist, you hit the nail on the head when you said 'in the name of...'.
First, I personally wouldn't think twice about deciding whether God does or doesn't exist. Just go and take what you want from the experience. Second, a job can be good or bad. Marriage can be good or bad. Just don't do the place that doesn't make sense.