Kep, this is why trans people keeping calm and "educating" on trans issues has limits. While I'm happy to educate on trans issues, please understand I can only give the information. What a person does with that information is entirely up to them. And the past week or so, most of you get what I'm saying. But I feel the last week or so, it's been a case of "MissThundercat Has To Repeatedly Justify Her Existence," and there's not enough coffee, Rosé, peanut butter pretzels, etc on this Earth to keep doing it. Society at large demands I do it, especially in a conservative area like West Michigan. If not for something called a job, there are days I wonder why I leave the apartment.