I didn't think it was too extreme. A little personal, yes, but not that bad. Maybe the inclusion of a phone number and e-mail address was too personal for the board moderator? Maybe there was another post this afternoon that was too extreme for the moderator that he (the mod) saw but we didn't? Joe basically called out the Roques and told them to straighten out their lies or he would do so here on the forum. I think most of us assume that at least one and probably more of the new users on here since Jim Roque was fired is actually Julia Roque, and Joe was responding to one of those posts which he felt was from her. I've seen far nastier posts on some of the political threads in the Cafe although I don't follow those that close.
I highly doubt a currently employed collegiate coach would post on this, or any other site. My guess is those who actually emailed him tipped him off to the fact that someone was posting under his name. Then he contacted the site administrator to have that post removed. I'd almost be willing to lay money on it was the fact someone was impersonating him that got that thread shutdown.