collegefan06
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Re: Boston University 2011-2012 Season Thread Part Deux
Yes, enough already both of your single minded approach to how Parker runs the program makes you incapable of distinguishing what I'm saying to what you believe. No harm no foul. If you think Parker has similar enduring relationships with his players of today that are similary to yesteyear that is fine. I KNOW he doesn't and don't feel a need to convince you.
As to the handling of Trivino, I've never said Jack has the ability to "cure" or force Trivino to deal with his apparent drinking issue. I just believe there was a better way to deal with it. Again no harm no foul. I respect that you are entitle to your opinion as well.
As times have changed, the coach is no longer the be all, and end all of players' college existences. There are certain rules and guidelines that even veteran, iconic coaches like Parker, York, Boeheim, Saban and Miles have to follow.
Coaches still have the power of discipline within their own programs. But how much control, or power, should have they outside of their team structures? Where does their responsibilities end, and the players' own responsibilities take over? And what of the school? And the players' own families?
Athletes that can accept responsibility for themselves tend to be the ones that rise in the ranks to leadership positions. If they can help guide and lead teammates, they become captains.
Athletes have a responsibility to their team, teammates, school, coaches and families. They will either put in the effort and sacrifice and maximize their talents, or they won't. And there are a lot of people trying to help them along that path to success. The threat to take that all away is the most powerful tool that a coach has in his arsenal of discipline. And you are correct - if it has to be used, it hurts everyone.
A coach needs to have the courage to make that threat, and to back it up.
Parker drew that line in the sand for Trivino, and he crossed it. And Parker backed it up by doing exactly what he said he would do. Short of an intervention (which others have posted would need to come from his family), it appears that Parker used the strongest tool of discipline that is at a coaches discretion to use in this time we live in.
Because, as has been reiterated ad nauseum on this thread, you CAN'T make somebody do something they don't want to do! Why do we keep analyzing this to death? In one breath, there are all these comments that "Parker doesn't resonate with today's players" and then in the next breath they say he is supposed to magically solve all their problems by "telling" them what to do?? Listen to yourselves!!! Jeez...enough already.![]()
Yes, enough already both of your single minded approach to how Parker runs the program makes you incapable of distinguishing what I'm saying to what you believe. No harm no foul. If you think Parker has similar enduring relationships with his players of today that are similary to yesteyear that is fine. I KNOW he doesn't and don't feel a need to convince you.
As to the handling of Trivino, I've never said Jack has the ability to "cure" or force Trivino to deal with his apparent drinking issue. I just believe there was a better way to deal with it. Again no harm no foul. I respect that you are entitle to your opinion as well.