It's taken long enough, but I think I may finally be having to deal with some HR-type nonsense. And honestly I have no clue how I should approach this.
I'm in a blue collar, warehouse job with 180+ staff at my level. Regular attendance/being on time is a must. Like, they take attendance each day as if you were in school. Any hours that are missed need to be accounted for by Vacation or PTO. If those aren't available, discipline/write-ups ensue. People are regularly disciplined/dismissed due to attendance.
About 13-14 months ago, a co-worker was granted FMLA for "reasons". Dude has basically taken that opportunity and ran with it. Dude's schedule is Thur-Sun. Basically he skips every Sunday unless attendance is required for Holiday Pay or he missed multiple other days that week.
The problem that has sprouted is that dude basically thinks with FMLA, he is "untouchable" and gets to take off whenever he pleases (6 days/month, but with the 4-day work week). He's not hiding how he is spending his Sundays. He's also making a big deal on Saturdays to brag on how he wont be in on Sunday like the rest of us.
I know FMLA is medical based, and confidentiality applies here. But at what point can I step up and be like "Yea, dude is aggravating me" with the constant comments about not having to work Sundays?
I'm on a Sat-Tue schedule, so I have to constantly balance work & life while the rest of the world gets "conventional" weekends. The fact that dude is so arrogant and up front about it is really starting to feel like a sibling who is sitting on the swingset yelling "You have to work, and I don't have to! Neener, neener, neener!" while you have to mow the lawn. Dude is super in your face about this and it's just becoming unbearable. He's super open about what he does on all these days off and doesn't even try and hide the fact that he's supposedly "medically unable to work" on these days.
Dude is clearly looking for reactions, but where can the line be drawn?
For reference, him and I have the same level of vacation/PTO (200 hours/20 full days). Since I started keeping a tally on the shenanigans, dude has missed 17 of 24 Sundays dating back to May. Several of those weeks were both Sat/Sun. Also three of the Sundays he worked required attendance to receive Holiday Pay. This doesn't count random Thur/Fri that he missed while I was off. He also had already used his full allotment of PTO/Vacation prior to this.
Is this truly just a "Suck it up!" kind of deal since they can't ask about FMLA use? I really don't know what to do here. It doesn't help that our building HR guy is a younger guy (early 30s) who is just generally not sharp.