I think you are cherry picking quotes which are negative. Overall, Sneddon had some very complimentary comments about Reynolds.
In response to questions about Reynolds’ absence, Sneddon said, “Kyle Reynolds can be a fantastic player. I really believe in him. He’s just in a little bit of a rut right now and when you’re in a rut, the way to get out of it is to play hard. Don’t cheat the game. The details have to be good, the scoring will come later."
“He’s putting a lot of pressure on himself right now because he’s not scoring but it’s snowballing on him a little right now on the other end,” Sneddon said of UVM’s leading returning scorer. “He’ll be there. He’s a great player, he’s a great young man and he’ll find a way. We’re hoping it happens this week for him."
And it's clear that he is relying on Reynolds to be a key part of this team. I don't think there is anything he said to TRyan that he hasn't said to Reynolds or the team. Coaches look at motivating each player differently. I'd expect that Reynolds needs that vocal challenge, while others need a quieter approach. But net/net, Sneddon's comments about Reynold were positive.
And the comments about forwards 9 to 16 relate to depth. They do not relate to Kyle Reynolds as he is not among that group (in my opinion and from the what I read in Sneddon's comments). It's great to have depth from the end of the third line through the fifth line. We haven't had that for a long time. I'm not sure if the talent level is as high as we might all like it.
For what it's it's worth, your rant reminded me a lot of the Justin Milo stuff here from a couple of years ago (was that Justin posting or his Dad?). So I almost called you Mr. Reynolds.