I also appreciate the energy of the "newbies" and I get the sense that they may even appreciate some of the perspective (even if sometimes negative) provided by the "vets". Speaking of perspectives .... perhaps the newer posters will appreciate an article I wrote for The New Hampshire almost twenty years ago .... at least I hope they will. I apologize for the length.
"It is late in the afternoon on a windy and cold Thursday. The darkness is showing aside remnants of sunshine and there is an air of excitement and anticipation. Something is happening. There are those who would say that the new UNH arena is just a building, and in some way they are right. However, in watching this building go up I have noticed a number of what I would call 'elders' perusing the scene. I include myself in that group. Now I know that the favorite spectators at construction sites are kids and old people, but this group was somehow different. I realized that I had seen them at many a UNH hockey game. Some were sitting in their cars, either in the parking lot overlooking the back of the building, or in the one near the Dairy Bar. Not much going on at the site on weekends but they came for a visit. There was that sense that they were looking at more than a building.
At some point I began to ask myself why I was making these weekly visits to the construction site. It obviously had something to do with the fact that I have watched UNH men's hockey for the last 28 years and missed approximately a half a dozen home games during that time, but it seemed like more than that. It all seemed very personal to me, kind of like the way I felt when I went to watch my new house being built and doing so on a daily basis.
It has taken me until the eve of the opening to set pen to paper. The stimulus was viewing an elderly couple, standing arm to arm, looking at the frantic activity that surrounded the building's completion. It occurred to me that they were being afforded the luxury of observing their future and their past while remaining in the present. There are times when this observing phenomena is clearly experienced; perhaps at the birth of a child, a daughter's wedding, at graduations or other endings and beginnings. It seems that at such moments in our lives we have a heightened awareness that 'something is happening.'
Walking back to the office after this latest 'sighting' I had a greater awareness of wht I was looking at during those construction visits. I was looking at the future while experiencing my own history with INH hockey. At some level of consciousness I must have been wondering who were going to be the future Rich Davids, Lou Frigons and Graham Bruders who initiated me to UNH hockey and Snively Arena; wondering whether we will be able to avoid the sadness of watching a big strong winger named Warren Brown leaning against the boards during practice and realizing his death a week later; who will provide the rare combination of fire and talent of Dave Lumley; will we ever again experience the elation of the Cox-Clark-Hislop flurry of goals followed by the hollow feeling of being No.1 being defeated by No.8; will we ever see another player as good in the face-off circle as was Dick Umile; will we ever again have to watch the puck go directly off the face-off and into the net and thus the NCAA loss to Wisconsin; will we ever again experience the likes of Bobby Gould #17 scoring at 17:17 in the Boston Garden and the sight of an exhausted Greg Moffett sitting on the ice leaning against the boards, and finally an ECAC championship; will anyone ever duplicate Andy Brickley's rise from a walk-on to All-American; when will see the intensity of a Kevin Thompson again; we know we will never see another last and longest game ever played at Snively and Eric Boguniecki's successful rush up the left side; we also know that it will be a very long time before we once again see the likes of Charlie Holt and Bob Kullen who will always remain exemplary of what college athletics can be. As our journey beyond time and space continues we will find that the answers to the above questions will be yes, no, and maybe.
The present is the birth of the past and when we see this clearly it can make us pause. Whatever season of life we are in it is important to know when to grasp and when to let go, as this is the only way we can allow ourselves to enjoy the present. In retrospect I see that my pauses by the construction site were grand opportunities to experience present moments. Something was happening, something is happening, something will be happening, and it was all happening at the same time."
As you said Chuck, "and so it goes" .......................