So Darius obviously reported me and is a grumpy old women. Two for one with potty. Potluck is just someone I wish woud just die.
So I’m out. JB, Chuck, ref, emily you have my number. We will talk. The rest of you good luck
What makes you so sure it was Darius who reported you, norbie? The only deletions I'm aware of in the long history of UNH threads on the USCHO boards have happened recently, and in close proximity to events when cpo pottymole gets his panties in a bunch. Darius has been on here for many years before this latest yearlong potty crap-fest, and there was never a snitching thing going on, even when discussions/debates were FAR more contentious than this minor league BS.
Darius can be horrified about some of the content, as others also have been, and that is their right, opinion and prerogative to say so. I'm sure some of that is directed at me, too. I'm OK with it, I've never thought there was unanimous agreement out there on everything I've posted lol. I can handle good faith criticism.
Problem here has been, at least for the last year plus since cpo pottymole prematurely came out of his promised permanent retirement, not everyone on here is participating in good faith. So it's probably the worst kept secret (so much so it's actually not a "secret") that many of us know each other and can hold each other accountable for things, where maybe someone goes too far. Personally, back in the day, I took it to much broader lengths when I'd reach out to folks at other fanbases (BU, BC and UMaine, starting when that was the Hockey East "Big Four") and got to know the most knowledgeable, passionate AND provocative posters from those groups. To my amazement - considering how relatively new the Internet/message boards were back then, pre-social media - almost everyone was happy to meet. Amazingly, no blood was spilled. No ridiculously personal lines were crossed. Content and humor got better. Most everyone "got it".
The question here isn't that there is disagreement on what ails UNH. There is plenty of grist for that mill now, further complicated by many new issues emerging from this brave new world of NIL, players getting paid, etc. ad nauseum.
The issue is how those questions are being debated, and when one (1) poster refuses to come clean on exactly who they are to the rest of the forum (and FWIW I do know who he is, no matter the denials) when he throws bombs at some of us constantly, then
it's easy to spot the malign actor in the bunch. I'm compelled to remind folks this poster has threatened to doxx his own (former?) USCHO friends/contacts on contents of their old DM messages to "prove" they disagreed with me (Imagine that; shocking, eh?). Sociopath much?!?
So, to the extent that I'm entangled in some of these "discussions" that many on here find distracting and/or distasteful, I do wish that weren't the case, but it can be hard to disengage, and I'm not going to give that sociopath the satisfaction. Our hero apparently thinks folks are taking unfair shots at the UNH Men's Hockey head coach and/or his boss, or other folks in that universe (all of whom are public figures), for whom job criticism absolutely comes with the territory. Again ... it's not just that we disagree on these things, but whether the disagreement and interactions are in good faith. With one (1) person, it clearly isn't.
I hope norbie, Emily and others don't shy away, but I respect any decisions to do so. It's a shame that one person can ruin things for so many others on here.