Re: Religion Thread: ...and suddenly, everyone's a theology scholar
I didn't write this
I didn't write this
One of the greatest sources of unhappiness in life is that we are raised to expect people to be one thing when they are really something else. What is normal? What is abnormal? What is a good person? We learn that someone good has baser desires and label them a hypocrite thereby becoming a hypocrite in doing so.
We build archetypes of character types and then expect people to fit nicely into those little defined roles that we've constructed. The constructs are artificial, but the people are not. We're shocked when we discover unexpected depths to someone we classified as stupid. We're offended when we learn that some esteemed person has baser desires. Pity the upstanding citizen who has a desire to dress up like a woman in the privacy of his own home.
We accept the roles that are placed upon us and try to mold ourselves into them regardless of the fact that we are uncomfortable in that role. We try to adopt the manners and beliefs of those roles. People who act a little oddly are shunned until they conform. A man who does charitable deeds is suddenly vilified when it is learned that he had an affair with a married woman.
Each and every person walking around thinks they are judge, jury, and executioner. If we find one little character flaw, then we condemn and punish the person. Seldom are we compassionate to those who fail to live up to the expectations that we place upon them. It doesn't matter that our expectations are unreasonable.