Good Evening Lodge! (Good being imaginary)
Good grief, what a day. Started with a call there was a leak in the basement of auntie les. The person did not tell me the leak was fragrant and sewage. The implication was a water pipe. The plumber arrived and shaid holy sh1t! While I was fielding all of this, auntie les carer called me because auntie was on the phone with fake Bank of America, giving out her info- and didn't want to stop talking to them. I told her to slam the laptop shut. The Nursing Home set up a meeting for mum les next week without contacting me but contacting my bro and his wife. They keep inserting themselves, they are in her business about everything so the NH thought they were the HCP. Mum les is trying to play people against each other because why not. (she called last night wanting me to say I was an NP so they needed to do what she wants).
In 9 hours I had multiple calls to the NH, plumber, drain plumber, remediation guy, the care giver, the live in person, the bank, the financial guy, the guy who helps her with her computer , auntie who wants to get on her computer, why does no one understand she wants to be online, auntie's pastor.
End result- the waste pipe is now cleared out, the remediation guy dealt with the mess. The bank account is locked except for deposits, auntie's online access is shut off, debit card is neutralized, the computer guy is going tomorrow. He is going to order her a chrome book and do multiple controls. I have to go to a bank branch to discuss options for how to proceed, deal with outstanding checks and auto pay that will fail. auntie is unhappy. She wants what she wants- at that stage she is unaware of how much she is unaware. The NH has suggested everyone attend mtg (they will set up conference call for bro and SIL). I messaged this and crickets (they want to be in her business but not part of the team discussion?)
I am going straight to heaven. If you have to stop at a waystation I think I am paying that now.
