I haven't been on here in forever. Didn't even realize that happened until I went to post and there was no option.
Life has been NUTS!
mum les is like a reduction sauce- more intense not in a good way. Has a pain med she is taking in creative ways. Her Dr is not figuring it out. I suck. uncle les is agitated. I'm supposed to fix all.
FIL les has been in hosp again. Same dynamic- the helpless, passive stuff makes me crazy. OMG is healthcare in the sh1tter. It is so bad I can't even begin to articulate.
Godmum les is struggling and anxious about it.
Dad les is also struggling but stepmum les is scrambling to pretend he is not. Fooling no one but they are unaware they aren't.
Meanwhile mr les cousin (40ish? we have no idea- family is estranged) died in another State. They want the cremains buried in family lot. Got a text- while we were in VA- that USPS tried to deliver her cremains to MY HOUSE!!??? and failed because someone needs to sign. W***FF. Who sends cremains without warning or asking if it is OK and then says here's the link for you to go claim them????? You can't make this stuff up.
And in all this we went to St Croix (FIL les sent to hosp via ambulance when we were there), went to VA (cremains thingy), and got new living room furniture.
We need to take a vacation from all the crazy.