Re: Ginding away- stop putting sand in my oil... Part 4
I am a parent.
For many kids your suggestion would work great. For others, it would not.
I'm not a parent, so I may be off base, but I would think at that age it would work better to say "I won't tell you when you need to go to sleep, you're old enough to figure that out by yourself, but you need to be up by x time so you can make it to school. If you don't make it to school, you won't be able to participate in the next track/cross country meet." Give him the sense of some responsibility and lay out the consequences. My guess is that he would figure it out pretty quickly, especially if he had to stay home from one meet.
I am a parent.
For many kids your suggestion would work great. For others, it would not.