My dad had open heart surgery (valve repair & one bypass) on March 17. While he has definitely improved since then, he still is having cognitive issues. He doesn't understand why he has to stay in the hospital (which may be changing soon anyway), tries to get up (bed is alarmed at night), demands his clothes, etc. and apparently is pretty belligerent about all of this. His only semi-clear times seem to be talking to someone on the phone or certain visitors or reactions to things that have happened to others (basically on latter two, he kicks into clear minister role & no one would notice anything off). I think that might be easier for him because there's no focus on him as patient then and as he is currently a chaplain at another hospital, the hospital atmosphere on its own isn't necessarily a negative trigger.
My mom is scared to death. My grandma lived a long time after completely losing it (competing diagnoses of it being result of many small strokes vs. Alzheimer's which wasn't really accurately diagnosed in the living back then) and more recently his sister died from something that can be inherited (can't remember name now, but when I googled at the time it seemed to be handed down more to females than males - I'm adopted so no worries for me) that a major part of was dementia.
Googling dementia post heart surgery was pretty depressing. If anyone has dealt with this in their family and has some positive stories and suggestions for ways to help speed improvement for him, it'd be greatly appreciated. The only positive I was able to extract and push with my mom was that it seems like 6 weeks is a pretty common length of time for issues to exist that do clear up.
I'm surprised that this seems so common from what I've read and yet I never heard of it as a negative before. I'm not saying I would have changed my opinion on surgery vs. medicine (and the specialist took that option away anyway), but I wouldn't have been as happy and might have urged delay while he underwent some preparation with a psychiatrist (he has suffered from depression in the past) in hopes that that would lessen the post-surgery depression issues that are also apparently quite common.
Thanks.
My mom is scared to death. My grandma lived a long time after completely losing it (competing diagnoses of it being result of many small strokes vs. Alzheimer's which wasn't really accurately diagnosed in the living back then) and more recently his sister died from something that can be inherited (can't remember name now, but when I googled at the time it seemed to be handed down more to females than males - I'm adopted so no worries for me) that a major part of was dementia.
Googling dementia post heart surgery was pretty depressing. If anyone has dealt with this in their family and has some positive stories and suggestions for ways to help speed improvement for him, it'd be greatly appreciated. The only positive I was able to extract and push with my mom was that it seems like 6 weeks is a pretty common length of time for issues to exist that do clear up.
I'm surprised that this seems so common from what I've read and yet I never heard of it as a negative before. I'm not saying I would have changed my opinion on surgery vs. medicine (and the specialist took that option away anyway), but I wouldn't have been as happy and might have urged delay while he underwent some preparation with a psychiatrist (he has suffered from depression in the past) in hopes that that would lessen the post-surgery depression issues that are also apparently quite common.
Thanks.